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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by John312, Mar 31, 2020.

  1. John312

    John312 New Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys,

    This is my first time with the NoFap challenge. I'm 22 and i'm from México. My english is not very good but i try my best.

    Now i'm completely shure that I have an adiction to porn and jerk off and im Afraid to never stop and also i feel that my penis is not working as a few years ago :( i'm so fucking afraid
    Sometimes i don't feel the orgasm with the same Energy that before :(

    Before 2016 i think that i used to have a regular life but out of nowhere i star to jerk off A LOT and i never stop. For several reasones i can't have girlfriend and actually i don't feel that i have Friends or something... I'm all alone really nevertheless a few months ago i star to Dating a girl and i Fall in love, but for real, i mean even now i think a lot in this girl :( thinks didn't work i was just a game for her and well
    Theres a lot shit in my life but i want to change that, i wanna be a better person and feel better and definitely the porn and masturbation have affected me in a lot of ways that i don't reallyce yet.

    Please leave me some advices and good vibes so i can have the strength to do this.
    And also if you can tell me from the 1 to 10 how good is my english would be great... i'm sorry but i have the doub

    Good luck
     
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  2. The Free Bird

    The Free Bird Fapstronaut

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    Hi and welcome to the community

    I would recommend you to stay in touch with members and read their success stories. You may also learn tricks to avoid the short-term pleasure and to face the temptations.

    Be AWARE of your habits and control what you see and what/who you spend your time with.

    It's also important to limit the usage of social media. In addition, never be free! Use your free time as much as possible and do sports, exercise, attend classes, etc.


    This video contains everything that you need to know about porn addiction. Lastly, here is a collection of ways to deal with the urges which worked great for me.

    ֍ You got this my friend ֍
     
    Last edited: Apr 3, 2020
  3. hollyman

    hollyman Fapstronaut

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    haha lol your english is better than mine bro, dont worry

    welcome to the journey
     
  4. | Nico |

    | Nico | Distinguished Fapstronaut
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    Welcome john wishing you the best :)
     
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  5. Hey welcome to the NoFap forum : )

    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!


    First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:

    Getting Started Guide / Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button / Set up your day counter / Rebooting Resources/ About NoFap/ Support NoFap


    Here is just some advice:


    First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)


    Then secondly I just advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.


    Theres a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal. Make sure and be grateful for the help you received and give some help after receiving some. Invest in some people's journeys. We could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!


    Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal/log (in the appropriate section for you) and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.


    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
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  6. One Eyed Owl

    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Welcome to Nofap sir!!!
     
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  7. Hello and welcome to this awesome community :)
     
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