Fixing DE

Stop M altogether. You have lost sensitivity and need to give it time to come back.

 

I had DE chronically for all my adult life. So much so I have been avoiding sex with women and exclusively PMO for years. I know it's hugely difficult thing to deal with.
I am convinced that I developed DE through my M style of very fast and hard and edging. I hope the 90 day hardmode will help me break the conditioning.
I haven't as much as kissed a girl in 15 years and the thoughts of putting myself out there, looking for dates and rejection, and what if It does not work? and what if I can't perform at all?
To be honest I find the whole thing at times to be very daunting.
But I have a very strong desire to have a normal happy relationship.

 

Hey, have you ever tried a different M style instead?

 

Yeah, I used a fleshlight or my hand slowly with a light touch and of course my favorite P clips. I even managed to ejaculate a handful of times but I had to put all my will into it. Still took over 30 minutes. Tell you the truth I was a chronic masturbator; at least once a day and days when I was not busy twice (even occasionally X3). So keeping up with that effort was too frustrating for me, so I never kept it up.

Looking back the desire for change was there but not the will.
The will is a lot stronger now.
I'm finding it tough, but I'm still hanging on in there.