Flatline dating and the little blue pill

Hi all, recently met a girl at a party (early December). She's a friend of a friend. We hit it off, and have since had a few evenings/nights together, all of which have included sexual intercourse.

HOWEVER, I last binge relapsed early Jan. And before that is was early December. My mind and body still feel in a state of flatline, which naturally leads to problems in the bedroom. The V pill has helped, but only with moderate success.

My first impressions of her are that she enjoys the cuddling / intimacy side of things more than the sex itself. And as I can feel this grip of flatline affecting my ability to provide the intercourse, I am seeking guidance on how to proceed:

1 - do i continue as is, and keep relying on a pill to make me semi-effective with the intercourse side of things?

2 - do I tell her where my head is at (i've already dropped some hints) and be honest?

3 - do I try and avoid dating her for the time being to focus on my recovery (i already made an excuse to not see her this week)?

As a side note, I didn't feel much of a sexual spark between us... this could of course be a symptom of the flatline also, but i do also enjoy the cuddling/intimate parts.

Any advice is appreciated, or any comments for anyone who has been down the same road (this is a recurring dilemma for me as PMO addiction has been with me for many years)

Thanks