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Flatline = No sex life

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Bandido, Jun 12, 2021.

  1. Bandido

    Bandido Fapstronaut

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    Seriously, I went without masturbation and porn for weeks cause i was “saving” myself for this lady I met, guess what today when we finally had sex, when I woke up since friday I was already feeling like dead down there, saturday my penis was dead all day. I even took a blue pill tho made in Indian so probably not that good but still Ive taken these in the past and it always works and yet this time nothing I couldn’t get hard except a semi and it didn’t go well but she still likes me and wants to try some other time

    even now at home with porn can barely get semi hard

    my dog had to be put down today which only added to my feeling of sadness that comes from flatline

    i just wasn’t turned on at all and i think is because of that stupid flatline and the fact my dog died

    how come other times when i never tried to do NoFap just kept fapping normally i would take the very same pills i took today and i would super rock hard and yet this time they didn’t work and i dont know if these werent as good but i dont think it is

    ive used many times before and they always work and yet this one time when i decided to do NoFap for longer than i ever did, they dont work and is because of the flatline there is no arousal so they dont work they need aome arousal

    flatline is nonsense same with NoFap i went to a few urologists before and they told me that if you stop using your penis of course you will lose your libido and thats what happened i had no libido and i used the same pills that always worked for me when I would normally masturbate everyday

    NoFap is nonsense cause you will be sexless for weeks if not months and then no libido whi knows if it will ever come back

    most men in society dont do this crap everyone faps at least a few times a week

    the problem is porn not masturbation if you dont use your penis for arousal of course you will lose your libido and thats what happened to me
     
  2. iwillrecover28110

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    Are u serious bro so what happened did u get ur libido back?
     
  3. Bandido

    Bandido Fapstronaut

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    This happened today with this lady. I took the same pills I took in the past which always worked to get me rock hard. These are pills made in Indian but they work cause Ive experienced it but every time Ive used them i was always masturbating everyday

    only now this time that i met this lady i went on NoFap for a few weeks now thinking this would result in higher libido stronger hardonds it was then opposite my libido went away like literally

    friday and today my dick was dead and small in size i would normally get hardons at waking up but nothing

    what i noticed is once you stop masturbation it increase your libido for a couple of days cause you want it more bu after that it starts to go down the longer you stay without masturbtiin the lower your libido goes

    i mean yeah is supposedly recovery but till when? Could take many months of being sexless fuck that

    the urologist i went told me is nonsense and of course you will lose your libido if you stop masturbating and ejaculating especially if you normally do this everyday

    these boner pills have always worked for me in the past when i would fap almost everyday regardless of the woman

    ive also seen escorts before of all types and it always works but i wasn’t flatlining then

    id notice when i stop for a week then it would still work but not as good as when i fap everyday

    if i go longer than a week my libido goes dead

    Flatlines equals a sexless life whats the point so you gin be sexless for months hoping youre cured one day?
     
  4. iwillrecover28110

    iwillrecover28110 Fapstronaut

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    Bro ur taking pills to get hard does that mean u can’t get hard normally? Bro just go through the flatline i’m going through it rn no matter how hard it will pass take cold showers, exercise do what u gotta do but don’t go back into porn and constant masturbation bro just wait
     
  5. Bandido

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    lol i can get hard without pills when im alone is a combination of anxiety too thats where the pills come in handy but like i said not once they had failed before except this time

    all the other times i used them I wasn’t really flatlining as hard as ive been now cause i would fap almost everyday

    Im sure the death of my dog made things worse put me in a sad mood

    but my dick has been dead since friday regardless so normally id get hard ons when waking up but these past few days nothing like today when i woke up going to take pee or ahit my dick looked small as fuck and dead like wtf

    This only added to my anxiety i kinda knew i was flatlining but thought the boner pill would kick me out of it but nothing i guess not

    then again these pills are not pfizer or anything so but they always worked for me in the past theyre the same pills

    its the flatline and the dead of my dog just made me feel even worse
     
  6. DeeJ4y

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    I am sorry to hear about your dog. You said that you went without fapping for weeks? You will need a longer tine than that if you have been PMO ing for a long time. Flatlines suck, I know. Hopefully you will decide to continue no matter what. Give nofap a solid go before giving up and bashing it. Your recent posts do harm to others who are confused like you. There is more to life than just fapping. Being able to enjoy lifes small things is the biggest benefit of them all. God bless you man.
     
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  7. While a lot of OP is written like parody, I actually do agree with the core idea.

    I, too, believe that if you go PMO free (aka. "hard mode" aka. "virgin mode") for a few weeks, you will lose all libido and experience lengthy flatlines.

    However, if you still have sex or masturbate (WITHOUT porn OR thinking about porn) then you keep you libido alive.

    Problem with the second option is, however, that the chaser effect will most likely bring you back to porn sooner or later...
     
  8. Vanquisher12

    Vanquisher12 Fapstronaut

    The thing is with that, though, is that you’re still feeding the dopamine receptors in your brain that demand dopamine from porn/masturbation/sex, and that’s what you’re addicted to. Masturbation addiction is not that much better than porn addiction (I know this because I was masturbating a lot longer than I have been watching porn, so that at my worst point my cock only got hard if I started stroking it, because the dopamine receptors associated touching my cock with pleasure), and while sex is better than either of the others, you’re still feeding that insatiable instinct to get more dopamine while you’re still under this addiction.

    @Bandido the flatline you’re getting is from your brain simply readjusting itself to the reduction of dopamine it’s experiencing from abstaining, and I agree with @iwillrecover28110 in that it will take longer than a few weeks for your erections to return to normal, particularly if you’ve been wanking regularly.

    Also I certainly wouldn’t advise taking pills when you’re trying to recover, because a fair number of men get dependent on using that to get strong erections too and can’t do it unless they take the pills. It’s meant to be used as an emergency measure, I.e. only to be used occasionally if you really can’t get it up, rather than a replacement to getting erections normally.

    Anxiety certainly isn’t helping you with that, but the cure for that is to simply stop thinking that you’re anxious, and just relax and live in the moment. You’re about to make love with the girl you love, that is a special, sacred pastime to be enjoyed, not something to get worried about, and don’t worry about trying to impress her or anything - if she’s the right girl for you she’ll love you for who you are and won’t mind if some things go wrong (and she certainly seems to be given she still likes you and wants to try again). If she ever belittles you just because of a problem that you can’t do that much about yet, leave her, because she won’t be worth your love if she does.

    Also if you can’t get a hard-on initially, there are still things you can do to have fun with her, and when you are doing some of these things they may trigger an erection naturally:
    Give her oral and the sounds of her whimpering and moaning in pleasure and the texture of her pussy against your tongue might get you hard. If that doesn’t work, get her to lick and suck your cock and balls, that should certainly get you hard.
    Doing these things with her will show her that you still want to enjoy yourself with her and that you’re not going to let something like this get you down, and that you care about her own pleasure as much as yours. If anything, she’ll love you all the more for it.
     
    Last edited: Jun 21, 2021
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  9. pump20

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    Look, flatline is good for you sometimes. The reason why because you wouldn't have to think about sex or having sexual thoughts or fantasies, so flatline is NOT A BAD THING!!! OK? It helped me out a lot because the brain can focus on one thing at a time not a multitask.
     
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