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Flatline since day 1

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by carch, Jan 3, 2020.

  1. Younameit

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    PMO reawakens those old pathways and they trigger those symptoms, in nlp they call it anchoring
     
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  2. cartmandaz221

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    You had urge back after 1 year? that's nice, I've lost that feeling for 430+ days and I have serious PE issue now.
     
  3. phwrancesco

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    If you're in a flatline, just take it. It's an unavoidable and necessary part of the process.
     
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  4. Gavalar09

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    Yes. But now that urge has gone again.
     
  5. Gavalar09

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    But I'd recovered.
    So why after just a few mistakes am I back at square 1.
    Surely 3 huge reboots shouldn't be undone with a few relapses.
     
  6. phwrancesco

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    yea but he's at day 30 or so, se he's far from a reebot.
     
  7. You know I might be flatlining here on day 10. Thats a good thing. Being all horny at the start of a reboot makes it more of challenge. Just ride out the flatty. Your "spunk" or "swagger" will come back soon enough.

    No need to get hit with the sexual energy, libido and SUPERPOWERS before your mind is ready.
     
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  8. I agree. The hardest part is controlling my emotional state but the hard ons I can do without.
     
  9. Gavalar09

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    So why am I back to square 1?
    Rebooted for a year and the 3 months and then 2 months. Why is my ED back stronger?
     
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  10. Younameit

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    next time you feel the urge, just MO
    ignore porn once and for all
     
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  11. Younameit

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    like I said dozens of times
    masturbation is normal and healthy in moderation
    PMO is dangerous and it is a drug stay away from it
     
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  12. carch

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    I appreciate this way of thinking about but I almost wish it was more difficult so I could challenge myself and my brain!
     
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  13. Gavalar09

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    Well I don't need to worry about that with no libido and ED.
     
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  14. Gavalar09

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    Of course. I intend to. But that's the issue. Couldn't get it up on my own, then saw some videos and it happened and then full blown ED ensued.
     
  15. Younameit

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    I'm sure you'll be fine soon, just give it a couple of days or weeks, your brain is already rebooted/rewired, but next time you have the urge just MO cause if you binge on porn you risk putting yourself into this situation
     
  16. Younameit

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    you mean you tried to MO, couldn't achieve an erection and then you relapsed to porn?
    dude.. this was a lethal mistake
     
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  17. A common blunder. Many of us fall off the reboot wagon trying to test if our 'junk' still works during a flatline. Next time just ride it out. See what happens....
     
  18. Younameit

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    keep us posted and remember to only MO
    since you did long streaks (1+ years) you will be able to recover pretty fast, at minimum a few days at maximum a couple of weeks
     
  19. Gavalar09

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    But I'm already on 2 weeks now I'm my libido is still dead.
     
  20. Gavalar09

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    No, I tried to just touch and nothing.
    Tried sex with my FWB and nothing, not even a semi.
    It's been 14 days now and I'm still dead downstairs.
     

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