Flatline trouble

I understand where you're coming from. In my opinion, you should continue your non pmo lifestyle. Your brain is primally hard-wired to orgasm with women and you can't change that. Although right now you may feel like masturbation is the only way you can feel pleasure, it is totally not true.

What you're doing right now, fighting off the addiction you have is super hard. More often than not the hardest things give you the best results. In order to achieve your goal I strongly believe - do not give in.

To undo the the effects of years, I honestly think you should give yourself more time before you think about the O. Honestly it can be triggering, especially in the beginning. That's how I relapsed.

 

I am using ED pills to be able to have PIV + O with my (new) GF during my no P and no PMO flatline.

my GF knows I am "resetting" from death grip and PMO but I haven't spelled out the flatline as I feel she will feel it's unflattering and that I think she isn't hot enough for me to get an Ę. She knows about the pills though.

She is mega hot - but flatline kills the party in my D.

So the pills.

They work.

She knows I am avoiding m and PMO but isn't vigilant / militant about it and isn't distrustfull / watching me like a hawk.

So I am all for O with GF.

so my (newbie) advice stay clear of all P and go ahead an O with GF - its part of your retraining?

But I am trying to skip "kinky" extra stuff because that is basically porn reenactment IMHO. I am trying to make vanilla sex the best sex.

Just one (very possibly all wrong) opinion

 

Good for you.

I like gadgets that fix or assist life.

And ED pills are "gadgets" to me at this time. My flatline seems to be easing up a tiny bit. I think I can see some light at the end if the ED tunnel. Still a long way to go.