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Fleshlight to cure loneliness

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Yeti32, Jan 29, 2021.

  1. Yeti32

    Yeti32 Fapstronaut

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    Guys, I am living separately from my wife since more than 2 months. I am becoming desperate and want to try fleshlight. What is your opinion on this? I need your help.
     
  2. Trobone

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    A sex toy is not a friend and won't cure your loneliness.
     
  3. A sex toy cannot replace any person in the world.
     
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  4. IGY

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    You cannot have a conversation with a plastic vagina. Your loneliness will continue.
     
  5. Yeti32

    Yeti32 Fapstronaut

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    I want to satisfy myself with fleshlight. Conversation will not resolve my situation.
     
  6. I had one years ago, its nothing special really. Its a refined pasta in a thermos. I threw it away after awhile. It wont help you.
     
  7. Take the money and spend it on sox and hamburgers. Then take those sox and hamburgers to the homeless. They are under every overpass and on every corner in my city. Acts of generosity will go a lot further towards combating loneliness than masturbating with a sex toy.
     
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  8. How does it sound to people when u say you are fucking a fake piece of plastic? how desperate does that sound to you?
     
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  9. Go fuck your plastic then.

    I don't see why you asked for opinions when you're clearly not going to listen to them.
     
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  10. Troubled Guy

    Troubled Guy Fapstronaut

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    Title is wrong. You want to deal with your horniness, which is understandable.
    But don't delude yourself in thinking that it's lonliness.
    No object can help with loneliness, not a fleshlight nor a Rolls Royce nor a mansion.

    You need personal contact and not just for sex. Socialisation is a basic human need. There is a reason we love in a society and not go solo like a tiger.
     
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  11. Deysonn

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    The guys in the thread have given you the answer. If you are truly lonely then having a fleshlight will not help. At the end of the day it is simply another form of masturbation and I assume the reason you are here is to overcome PMO of which masturbation is a key component. If you are truly looking to beat the habit then getting a flash light will not help in this regard either. In my experience masturbation leads you back to porn. I would advise you stay away from a fleshlight and masturbation.

    What are your goals? Do you want to overcome PMO? Do you want to resolve the issues with your Marriage?

    The fleshlight is only a distraction, its joy will be short lived at best and will most likely lead to negative thoughts about yourself.

    Be honest with your self, what do you really want?

    It may be to satisfy yourself sexually, however that does not align with being on NoFap.
     
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  12. Freedom_from_PMO

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    Honestly? Sounds pathetic.
     
  13. fapequalsdeath

    fapequalsdeath Fapstronaut

    A fleshlight is not a toy,
    No my boy;
    Not a toy to fondle and dandle
    And playfully handle
    In search of some puerile joy.
    No, a fleshlight is not,
    Definitely not a toy.

    3 MALES:
    You're absolutely right, Mr. Fap!
    We wouldn't have any other way, Mr. Fap!
    It's a company rule, Mr. Fap!

    MALE ENSEMBLE:
    A fleshlight is not a toy,
    No my boy,
    not a toy.

    So do not go jumping for joy,

    MALE ENSEMBLE:
    Boy! A fleshlight is not...
    A fleshlight is not,
    A fleshlight is not ...a toy,

    FEMALE ENSEMBLE:
    A fleshlight is not to be
    Used for play therapy.


    COMPANY:
    The fleshlight you got,
    Is definitely not
    Before you jump for joy,
    Remember this my boy,
    A fleshlight is not,
    A tinker toy!
     
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  14. smh_fam

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    No form of masturbation can cure loneliness brah.

    I remember seeing a documentary a few years back about guys who bought high end sex dolls and treated them like a real gf or wife. A couple of them had an entire harem of these things. It didn't seem to work.
     
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  15. Then, you're looking for an excuse to feed your addiction, not cure loneliness.
     

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