I wanted to create a thread (apologies if its already been done, but I couldn't find out if it was) where the spouses/SO's could come and just give any comments, advice, comment, complaint, threat, question, or anything else they wanted to us addicts for a response or answer to anything. I talk to my wife about my addiction and am often surprised at thigns she has to say. She says things about how she felt about me acting out over the years that I never would've realized or thought of otherwise. So hit me with it! Anything you have to throw at us, this is your moment! You're being asked, so you don't hav to worry about anyone saying that no one asked for your thoughts on us acting out, or your spouse/SO acting out. This goes for men and women, anyone who isn't an addict, but is or was in a relationship with one! And GO!!