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For anybody who have spent money on prostitution.....

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Aug 22, 2021.

  1. very well said.

    I wented to the hookers for 11 times by myself. here its lega. First time sucked, the others where good. 3 weeks ago i wented again. i relapsed one week before. i got there, trouble getting hard. when i was hard we did doggy for 7 minutes and than i came. i payed to cum two times, but my p shrinked fast, i couldnt get hard anymore while she was naked on top of me, how fucking embarasing...

    so she offered to give me a message, even than my p stayed lifeless and dup. I left with a bad feeling, the next day H U G E brainfog.

    I sweared next time i weted was over 90 days hard mode. or just do fingering.

    Now i realized that they are a waste of time and money. Better get a gf and have tantric sex with the woman you love.
     
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  2. With a Stranger especially a prostitute - If you're talking about a sane person, it will be regret!

    If you are talking about a Sex Addict - That's different taste...

    To me - There is no beauty in that road...
    These Women are Mentally Damaged, even when they smile it's all fake, even when they say they like you! They don't it's just a Fantasy.

    Personally, I don't want to damage any woman that life has already fuck, I don't want to be the problem but the solution, such acts makes me no different than the Men who used her.

    You know what it's like for someone to Sell Themselves ? Do you know what it's like...?

    They have no self esteem, and probably they hate themselves...just a body no emotions no self worth.... Just a secual tool for men.

    I believe any girl would want to be something when she grew up but not selling her self and be used as a gadget for sexual pleasure to men.

    Try thinking it through...
     
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  3. It’s easy to pay a hooker for sex because I’ve done it, what’s not so easy is actually putting in the effort of building a relationship and having sex with someone you love. As porn addicts, we want shortcuts, we like it easy. Prostitution is the easy way out, essentially an artificial shortcut. Why ever put in the time, effort, and money into someone you love when you can just pay a stranger you can fuck. This is why relationships fall apart, this is way we hit our 30s & 40s with either unhealthy or non-existing love relationships, because we’ve become addicted to taking the easy way out. It will lead you deeper in your addiction. For those in support of prostitution, I legitimately feel sorry for you. You’ve fallen for the trap I was once in.
     
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  4. ForceMaster

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    Yeah and you guys can also work on yourselves and go to bars or clubs and pick up chicks and bang them , this is the ultimate expression of love and spirituality when a girl volountarly gives you her most prized possession wich is her Vagina , lol , not because she want money from you like a hooker , but because she's attrracted to you , if you devoloped a relation with her then she might want some shit , moslty money , just like a hooker ahahahhahahaha , so just hump and dump , smash and dash , nail and bail , hit it and quit it , lol
     
  5. Agreed.
     
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  6. 100% agree
     

  7. This, all this. Play the long game, what does your life look like when you've actually met someone and decided to settle down? The temptation to go out to a massage parlor or what have you is still there, just waiting for you to say, "aw, I've given it up, but I'm really tense and my wife doesn't want to have sex right now, so I'll just take care of it on the side, she'll never know." Now in addition to being unfaithful, you're keeping secrets and being deceitful. You promise yourself it was only the one time, but then you go back again, and again.

    Best case scenario (and given a woman's intuition, a HIGHLY unlikely one), she never finds out and you become a liar and cheat for the rest of your days, moving on from prostitution to random hookups with questionable people. You become untrustworthy, hypocritical and an all around shady character who never deals with a problem, just runs from it.

    Worst case scenario you get busted in a sting, your name gets plastered across the news, you lose your job, your wife is humiliated and wants a divorce. If you have kids, they despise you for ruining the family. If you're lucky, your wife may stay on the condition you get help, but nevertheless, the damage has been done.

    There are other possible scenarios in between these two, including getting a V.D. and giving it to your wife, getting ripped off and/or blackmailed, supporting sex trafficking, and inadvertantly fathering an illegitimate child and then having to support him or her.

    Am I sounding too idealistic for some of you?

    These are not just theoretical scenarios, they are realities, and they've happened to friends of mine. Their lives have never been the same. Other friends, if they keep on the path their on, will find this out soon enough. Take this as a warning, your behavior does affect you and everyone around you. It will change you. There is no free lunch.
     
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  8. GuitarDude

    GuitarDude Fapstronaut

    LMAO!!
     
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  9. treed

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    Pussypowers overrated
     
  10. Pretty much.

    Yeah, I'm not here seeking sex with a brothel, and I just wanted to hear opinions on this thread. You don't need to feel sorry for me that I've never done it, though.
     
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  11. WubbyTubby

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    Alright, so i had one experience with this. To be honest, it gave me one hell of a confidence boost. It was life changing, i went from shy and "dont know what i want" to calm and sure. I got a gf shortly after, so it stayed at that one time.
     
  12. SUjIWAN

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    The bond is future KARMA. You will pay here monetarily $$ but you are also at fault for being not in control of animal instincts and dragging the other person along with you in the muck, even if they *seem* to be willing. Someone has to stop the act and it is the one with the money.
     
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  13. mafinhos

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    Don't do it. That's my advice.

    It destroys your sense of masculinity and your self-esteem. And your money, because it can really be an addiction.
     
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  14. I am not doing it. Just wanted to hear opinions and experience here, though.
     
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