For how long do you indulge in a PMO "session"?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by ultrafabber, Nov 19, 2018.

For how long do you indulge in a PMO "session"?

  1. Less than 10 minutes

    3 vote(s)
    7.5%
  2. 10 to 20 minutes

    2 vote(s)
    5.0%
  3. 20 to 30 minutes

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    10.0%
  4. 30 to 40 minutes

    4 vote(s)
    10.0%
  5. 40 to 50 minutes

    3 vote(s)
    7.5%
  6. Over 50 minutes

    24 vote(s)
    60.0%
  1. ultrafabber

    ultrafabber Fapstronaut

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    So the average duration for sex is somewhere between 5 and 15 minutes (including foreplay). Actual sex without foreplay is like 5 minutes.

    I'm not sure if PMO "sessions" should be considered just sex sessions or sex sessions with foreplay but i noticed that in my case and i assume in other cases as well PMO sessions last much, much longer. And i'm pretty sure it's not ok.

    We have way more control over ejaculation and edging is virtually unlimited (and not healthy). I've personally had sessions in which i edged so much the orgasm didn't even matter, i was exhausted by that time.

    I consider these sessions as "binge", even if technically a binge describes multiple ejaculations. In my opinion it's a binge because it shares the same characteristics: we aim for much more pleasure and we can't stop.

    In my case i noticed that a session lasts, on average, at the very least 30 minutes but usually up to 1 hour. I've had some sessions that lasted up to 4 hours... wtf.

    This can't be healthy we're not biologically supposed to bathe in this type of arousal and pleasure for so long and have so much control over it. Physically we would just not be able to have sex for so long unless we were top tier athletes. Actual sex is actually exhausting, masturbation is not exhausting at all.

    Not that I consider masturbation healthy, cause i don't, but the reasoning of "just rubbing one out" is invalidated when one masturbates for more than 5 minutes. "Rubbing one out" would imply one just needs to ejaculate (which would be possible in a couple of minutes top)s, but usually the PMO session is about pleasure and is very prolonged.
     
  2. BravelyKegger

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    i took ecstasy once and masturbated for like 15 hours straight, it made me loose sense of time so i was just playing porn games for hours while masturbating haha, but i can easily go hours normally depending on what im looking at.
     
  3. ultrafabber

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    That's interesting. What's your opinion on going for so long?
     
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  4. BravelyKegger

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    i like edging for hours, the orgasm is always mind blowing and shoots like 5 feet in the air, i dont do it often tho, well i dont do it at all anymore for obvious reasons.
     
  5. Mattew

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    When i was pmoing it was always more than 50 minutes.
    For 20 years.
     
  6. ultrafabber

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    Interesting results and replies so far but sadly not unexpected.... even though it's definitely not healthy for us.

    Would you say you go for so long just because of the orgasm at the end or because the process is also pleasurable? That is, if you could, with some unknown technique, get the same amazing orgasm by masturbating for just 3 minutes, would you consider the experience equal to the hours edging+orgasm?
     
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  7. BravelyKegger

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    it all depends on the mood i am in, if i just want to relax and enjoy myself than i will go for a long time, cause once you orgasm its all over so i try prolonging it.
     
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  8. Music Man

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    I would go for two or three hours on average, sometimes longer. Much of that time was spent browsing my standard list of sites for new material and otherwise getting warmed up. I would be fully aroused for an hour or two before getting to the main event. I almost always edged many times before finishing.
     
  9. rgm

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    As a kid I always rushed, watching to find good scenes and only pulling down my pants after that (to evade being caught)
    Then PMO quick rushing for orgasm.
    pretty sure this caused PE.

    Last few years though I watch a ton of videos/look at a ton of pictures for hours sometimes
    (I guess for the dopamine rush of searching then finding the "perfect" clip/moment/picture)

    I feel like if you watch a single long video or a few long videos it won't be THAT bad.
    But if you edge for hours, skipping through hundreds of videos, going through tons of pages.. it fucks your dopamine hard.
    Personally I feel like how bad P is ranges between kind of bad and extremely bad for you.
    Like "kind of realistic" more "friendly" porn > standard categories/scenarios then after that:
    it gets worse the more pages you go through, the more videos you skip through AND
    the more "taboo" or "extreme" (things that give the most dopamine since its extra "exciting").
     
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  10. Themadfapper

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    When I edge for a long time I no longer orgasm, or at least nothing comes out. I think it gets blocked up from the constantly being sent back, lol.

    P.S

    Like your Avatar.
     
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  11. Daniel S.

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    It depends on the day, but I usually go for an hour. However, I have gone for like three hours one time, which resulted me getting blue balled. Let's say that the end result really wasn't worth it. It ruined the whole night for me, and I went to bed sore. Luckily the next day I was fine, but I certainly don't wanna do that again.
     
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  12. _Owais_

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    Thats what I & many fapstrounauts have been looking for...So this thread is really helpful for those who have edged for hours...I have myself edged alot & my longest session was continuous 7 hrs of edging & yeah man edging is worst than just orgasiming in a few seconds...While edging we really fuck our brain with alot dopamine & it gives blueballs, soreness of body & penis...we keep feeding our brain for hours & it increases our crave for more & yeah it really depletes our body...so those who havent edged & are curious this is the answer to remove their curiousity...
     
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  13. ultrafabber

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    I am surprised how i didn't figure out this sooner, as i've been doing it for a very long time. Obviously such a gigantic duration is very bad and it seems a lot of us go over 50 minutes and even hours. My max was around 6 hours edging.

    From my experience, even if i don't think masturbation is healthy anyway, a quick 2 minute fap (and not more faps after) is much better than a long fap.

    I think I noticed I tend to edge more since I decided to never binge (fap more than once per day/relapse). So in turn my brain got it's fix by prolonging the duration of that one fap. Definitely unhealthy.

    I think there should be much more awareness on nofap about fapping duration. A relapse of a 2 hour fap is much much worse than a 2 minute fap, even though they "technically count as 1 fap"
     
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  14. gogibasket

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    Hours of edging before pmoing for long time
     
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  15. IGY

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    Let us be clear, we are talking about edging. This is the slang/informal name for Orgasm Control: a sexual technique which involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period of time without reaching climax.

    For the male, the speed of the rubbing or stroking of the penis may vary to navigate right to the edge of ejaculation. With orgasm control, a male can experience a longer or more intense orgasm, as well as a larger volume of semen expelled during his ejaculation. Because solo masturbation allows for precise control over the feelings, the timing, and the speed of stimulation, many people practice orgasmic control by themselves. One technique, commonly referred to as 'edging', involves masturbating up until the moment before reaching the plateau phase just before orgasm occurs, and then stopping suddenly before experiencing a climax. Another technique, commonly referred to as 'surfing', involves reaching the plateau phase and slowing down the stimulation to maintain a heightened level of sensation for an extended time. Repeating either of these techniques many times during a single masturbation session may result in a stronger, more intense orgasm.

    However, as member of this community, edging or orgasm control via extended masturbation (especially for hours on end), is very harmful. This fact is explained by the scientist Gary Wilson on his web site [YourBrainOnPorn]. Here is the link:

    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...masturbate-edge-or-watch-porn-without-orgasm/
     
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  16. SirErnest

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    I think some of it is boredom, loneliness and stuff like anxiety or depression.
     
  17. corado

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    LOL...where is the Option for 3hours, 5 hours, 14hours and so on?!?!
    I do it always for hours..the Orgasm is so intense..I felt from my chair :) An orgasm can go over 20 Second or more...really intense orgasms!!
     
  18. gogibasket

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    Lol great picture (Al bundy)
     
  19. Rehab101

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    The quicker the better for me because that means I'm very aroused from whatever I'm looking at. There are times I go to about an hour but usually no more than that.

    I never really edge for obvious reasons but I am glad that I never tried that.
     

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