Forced feminization fetish, does it ends someday

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Hahaidontcare12, Sep 17, 2018.

  1. Hahaidontcare12

    Hahaidontcare12 Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone
    I am 16 years old and I am suffering from crossdressing or forced feminization fetish, it is really worst and I want to get rid of it

    My forced feminization fetish has started 2 years when I was newly introduced to feminization captions sissy porn before that I had BDSM fetish

    I have started rebooting and I am on 6th day I wanted to know that this forced feminization fetish end someday by rebooting or it is permanent

    And lastly as nofap is introduced to share opinions and Advice all your opinions are heartily welcome
     
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  2. Hahaidontcare12

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  3. Zamyou

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    Heya,
    I'm kindof in the same boat i also have some sissy / autogynephilia fantasies im trying to diminish...
    It might be we never get rid of them 100% as they will be in the background always..
    But there is a very good chance you will lessen them and your sexuality will normalize to how it was before porn! Porn always boosts these types of fantasies so they become a bigger issue...
    So its absolutely worth doing noFap!
     
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  4. Hahaidontcare12

    Hahaidontcare12 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you friend
     
  5. ramboeea

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    it is all in your mind i have bdsm and foot fetish since i was very young, but in the few last months i figured out that when you abstain from it (don't think about it or doing it in real or even watch any videos related to your fetish) rarely you will think about it again.
    good tip for that : when strong urges hit you try to think about normal porn , as time goes on you will be attracted again to female body as normal.
     
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  6. Hahaidontcare12

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    Thank you friend your tip is awesome
     
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  7. TommyIsHere

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    Here is my short story. I have shoe fetish, a bit a looner and like wearing leggings or something similar. I used to be arroused from that. Had a surgery on my di*k so i had to stop masturbating for at least a month and since getting a boner was.. Not painful but at very least very uncomfortable so i had to stop getting a boner... Each time i would start getting a boner because of all my fetishes i tried to think something like "why i get a boner, no, dont think of this, i should not be arroused because of that.." and things like that as well as think about regular sex. Nothing super fancy, just love and sex. After couple of weeks i noticed that i no longer get arroused by shoes and all other shit that used to get me arroused and i started to get sudden and hard boners pretty much each time i was with my gf.. Sad thing i fell back to 0 because i "wanted to know how to reach orgasm now since i had a surgery".. In other words, each time you get a boner or will feel even slightly arroused because of those things you mentioned, you should think like i was thinking. Eventually you SHOULD stop suffer from what you are suffering.. At least that helped me (thats why i know that nofap trully works and im trying to do it again)
     
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  8. Gottabebetter

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    No fetish is permanent with enough will power. It just takes time for things to fade out of a habitual stance in your mind, so if this cross dressing or forced feminization thing is something you personally want gone then walk away, and leave it alone.
     
  9. Burundi24

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    So I personally have a Crossdresser Fetish too and I already had this fetish way before I started watching porn. I think your sexual preferences and fetishes are definetely to a certain degree permanent because you are born with it. But since you're only 16 years old and still in puberty your sexuality might still change and you have to explore what you actually like.
    Watching alot of crazy porn can increase your desire for this kind of fetish and might influence your sexuality negatively but I'm doubting that there's such thing as a porn induced fetish. Porn might reveal some fetishes and increase your desire for them but in very few cases induce them.
     
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  10. Gottabebetter

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    "I'm doubting that there's such thing as a porn induced fetish. Porn might reveal some fetishes"

    Sorry, you know unrealistic fetishes could never be something programmed naturally into a person, right? There are people who cannot achieve the O without a cartoon, and the reason is a porn induced fetish.

    Also cross dressing does not determine sexual orientation either, doesn't mean he was born with the fetish to cross dress; I see nothing here about wanting to make a transformation of gender.
     
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  11. Hahaidontcare12

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    Thank you friend for sharing your story
     
  12. Hahaidontcare12

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    Thank you friend for your reply
     
  13. Hahaidontcare12

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    Thank you friend, I am trying to avoid porn
     
  14. Hahaidontcare12

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    Thank you friend for sharing your opinions
     
  15. Burundi24

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    A Crossdressing fetish has nothing to do with wanting to make a transformation of gender. It just means that you get aroused by wearing women clothes . 80-90% of men in the western world watch porn videos and most of them aren't getting any bizarre fetishes. Obvisously this doesn't mean that porn induced fetishes don't exist at all. Since many men with a crossdresser fetish already developed this kind of fetish during puberty or even earlier I just believe that it is to some extent innated.
    Of course you can just oppress this kind of fetish and maybe it will reduce itself but I think it will rarely completely go away. This doesn't mean such a fetish has to influence your sex life or your life in general in a negative way. Staying away from porn and living an healthy life could at least help to reduce the influence of such a fetish.
     
  16. lenni990

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    Hey, good news its never too late to change and reboot yourself and your brain.
     
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  17. WasZeusWrong?

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    Hi, Haha. Your post made me mad. Not because of you but because porn has complicated our lives so much and because it "caught" you at such a young age because it's so available. Kudos to you for trying to avoid it. I wouldn't worry too much about whether your fetish will go away someday. Just abstain from porn for now, and allow your sexual desires to surface in your thoughts but don't dwell on them. Plan to do this for at least several months, maybe a whole year, knowing that you're still young, with plenty of time and robustness for sex in the future. Most importantly, I urge you not to think you're messed up or ruined for life. Human sexuality is just a wild, crazy thing -- but unfortunately, porn is like a cheap buffet that makes us eat all sorts of crap when we really just want one well-prepared dish that satisfied.
     
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