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Forever alone

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by 270916, Nov 1, 2020.

  1. Different Built

    Different Built Fapstronaut

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    I feel you man. Hit another flatline yesterday and feel like shit. It's my 4th one but some days are just ass. Just keep going man, way to work! F*** PMO
     
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  2. GeeJ

    GeeJ Fapstronaut

    Don't give up. If they didn't want to hang out with you there is a whole college/university full of people out their to try with.

    Hey, it's like dating not every girl/guy is going to accept your invitation their might be some rejections but you just have to persevere.
    All, they can say is no or their busy or yes and then thats it.

    Keep trying.
     
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  3. Starman123

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    I can relate. Similar story except this is with studies. I made a stupid decision almost 2 years ago which I really regret. I decided to do my Alevels as a private candidate thinking that studying alone wouldn't make a big difference. There were several factors that made me make this ever regretting decision: I had no need to socialise since I had stuff that I love mainly gaming. During the 1st year I used to game a lot, watch movies, and also was addicted to PMO. So my mind was basically in the escapism realm so I didn't really socialize much or even had a basic need to.

    But now I feel the effects like crazy especially since I've quit gaming and movies. Social withdrawal is indeed a huge problem. Whether we're introverts or silent it doesn't matter we are social creatures.

    I do live with my parents and my family. So this is not a compete withdrawal. But still Im too far away from socialising with friends. I really get into loneliness frustrations often these days.
     
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  4. 270916

    270916 Fapstronaut

    Fortunately i found others whom are better in socialising and went out with them yesterday and it felt good
    So it was my mistake to try with the same individuals everytime expecting a different result.
    At least getting the socialising part will fullfil the human need until new friends come along with time.
     
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  5. 270916

    270916 Fapstronaut

    Try as much as you can to get out of this private studies, you need others around you in this stage. Just look for the right people.
     
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  6. GeeJ

    GeeJ Fapstronaut

    Yessssssss.
    You did it.
     
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  7. ScottPiligrimm

    ScottPiligrimm New Fapstronaut

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    I'm feeling the same now. I think that I'm totally alone
     
  8. 270916

    270916 Fapstronaut

    have you tried to socialize recently?
    if not, just try it and you will forget lonliness for a while. this is all you need in rebooting.
     
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