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Fapstronaut
Thank you to whoever takes their time to read this,
These past two weeks have been hard, but these next two weeks and beyond will be easy as heck. This post will be what success will look like for me and how I also want it to look like for you. I am in no way saying how you should live your life; however, I am making suggestions on how to find success and sustain it, when it pertains to NoFap.
I went 65 days and I'm beating it like a dead horse, saying that over and over to rationalize relapse. I figured, "What the heck, why not? You went 65 days, it'll feel amazing!" That was the Devil talking. F*ck him.
God is best. If you don't believe in God, that is fine too. You can believe in yourself, unless you're a zombie, or another archetype of the undead. I've found myself feeling like a zombie of depression. I've tried talking to two different ladies and it has gone completely awry.
I didn't stick to my diet; I did not consistently exercise and I had to drop a course in school. It's like all those great things I did in 65 days, poof - went out the window. Not any longer; I will feel those feelings I did during those 65 days. What gives you such motivation to go so many days, or even longer? Passion.
I remember what I'm passionate about. There's no way - if you have a porn/masturbation addiction you're living passionately. I cannot speak for women (I wouldn't have the audacity), but I can say the best thing a Man can do is resist himself. When you're pleasuring yourself via masturbation - you aren't pleasuring yourself in the myriad of ways that are available.
Men should sweat working, working out, or manufacturing opportunities for eustress by perhaps just introducing yourself to a lady you think is gorgeous. I have been trying to give my number to ladies recently. A couple have texted and a couple have not. That doesn't mean I'll give up.
I am writing a novel and I'm finishing school. I am trying like hell to make a bonus at work. These are all things I can focus on instead of touching myself. You can do this too.
YOU WILL DO THIS.
Try joining the 7 day challenge here https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/7-challenge-the-seven-days-challenge.125271/
And perhaps the 90 day challenge here
https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/90-challenge-the-ninety-days-challenge.137180/
There are other amounts of days available, but starting one day at a time helps. I put a note in my phone of each day. There is a Day counter (BE HONEST WITH IT DONT CHEAT). Integrity is a must. Just slow down and know that if you're chivalrous, kind, thoughtful, humble and perhaps give back to your community - fortune does smile.
I also suggest you clear your phones web browser memory. Get rid of any pictures of hot girls butts you may or may not have. Ladies - lose the six pack or d*ck photos, or my gay brothers/sisters lose the pictures because what the problem is are TRIGGERS.
Triggers are things you know make you want to fap. Triggers could be photos, videos, people or even at times food. Movies with sex scenes are a problem for some people, so careful with those too. If there are toxic people in your life cut them off because you're amazing for even reading this much! You deserve better. Don't let people walk over you. Use "I," not, "You," statements to people who give you a bad time. Don't say, "You are being awful to me!" Instead try, "I don't appreciate the way you're treating me," sounds better right?
The trick is - give yourself better habits each day. I'm going to try and write posts like this about once a week. On Mondays, the day the whole world hates for some reason.
I again thank whoever reads this and please give me a follow; I will reciprocate,
Best regards,
Christopher.
These past two weeks have been hard, but these next two weeks and beyond will be easy as heck. This post will be what success will look like for me and how I also want it to look like for you. I am in no way saying how you should live your life; however, I am making suggestions on how to find success and sustain it, when it pertains to NoFap.
I went 65 days and I'm beating it like a dead horse, saying that over and over to rationalize relapse. I figured, "What the heck, why not? You went 65 days, it'll feel amazing!" That was the Devil talking. F*ck him.
God is best. If you don't believe in God, that is fine too. You can believe in yourself, unless you're a zombie, or another archetype of the undead. I've found myself feeling like a zombie of depression. I've tried talking to two different ladies and it has gone completely awry.
I didn't stick to my diet; I did not consistently exercise and I had to drop a course in school. It's like all those great things I did in 65 days, poof - went out the window. Not any longer; I will feel those feelings I did during those 65 days. What gives you such motivation to go so many days, or even longer? Passion.
I remember what I'm passionate about. There's no way - if you have a porn/masturbation addiction you're living passionately. I cannot speak for women (I wouldn't have the audacity), but I can say the best thing a Man can do is resist himself. When you're pleasuring yourself via masturbation - you aren't pleasuring yourself in the myriad of ways that are available.
Men should sweat working, working out, or manufacturing opportunities for eustress by perhaps just introducing yourself to a lady you think is gorgeous. I have been trying to give my number to ladies recently. A couple have texted and a couple have not. That doesn't mean I'll give up.
I am writing a novel and I'm finishing school. I am trying like hell to make a bonus at work. These are all things I can focus on instead of touching myself. You can do this too.
YOU WILL DO THIS.
Try joining the 7 day challenge here https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/7-challenge-the-seven-days-challenge.125271/
And perhaps the 90 day challenge here
https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/90-challenge-the-ninety-days-challenge.137180/
There are other amounts of days available, but starting one day at a time helps. I put a note in my phone of each day. There is a Day counter (BE HONEST WITH IT DONT CHEAT). Integrity is a must. Just slow down and know that if you're chivalrous, kind, thoughtful, humble and perhaps give back to your community - fortune does smile.
I also suggest you clear your phones web browser memory. Get rid of any pictures of hot girls butts you may or may not have. Ladies - lose the six pack or d*ck photos, or my gay brothers/sisters lose the pictures because what the problem is are TRIGGERS.
Triggers are things you know make you want to fap. Triggers could be photos, videos, people or even at times food. Movies with sex scenes are a problem for some people, so careful with those too. If there are toxic people in your life cut them off because you're amazing for even reading this much! You deserve better. Don't let people walk over you. Use "I," not, "You," statements to people who give you a bad time. Don't say, "You are being awful to me!" Instead try, "I don't appreciate the way you're treating me," sounds better right?
The trick is - give yourself better habits each day. I'm going to try and write posts like this about once a week. On Mondays, the day the whole world hates for some reason.
I again thank whoever reads this and please give me a follow; I will reciprocate,
Best regards,
Christopher.