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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Safarkiller, Jun 1, 2018.

  1. Safarkiller

    Safarkiller Fapstronaut

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    After a 40+day without PMO, i think i can control myself to not watch P and O,
    But something i wanna M,
    I likes spent time talking dirty and fantasy with my girl. What is the hell with me? Ia this wrong?
     
  2. Mister Fire

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    IMO, PMO and NoFap are two completely different mindsets and lifestyles.If you stop watching porn but still acting like a PMO addict, the relapse is on its way buddy.
     
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  3. MasterRoshi

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    This website is really really awesome because it has definitely helped me stay sober from PMO. But there’s way more to it than just this and the title of this site may mislead people into thinking the problem is porn rather than a state of mind.

    As @Mister Fire said, if we’re srill acting like an addict then we’re headed for trouble, because what we have is a sex addiction that lives in our brain, not an external issue.

    So if you are honestly treating your girlfriend with love and respect and you and her are enjoying phone sex or something and she wants you to Masturbate, then it might be ok. For me however, this is on my list of things I don’t want to do, personally. But everyone’s list is different. You just have to be honest with yourself and your morals.

    From reading your post, however, it sounds like you’re not ok with it and this should be a sign that you might need to have an open conversation with your girlfriend to let her know where you’re struggles are so she can support you.

    Best of luck!
     
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  4. Safarkiller

    Safarkiller Fapstronaut

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    I hope i dont relapse to PMO, hmm
     
  5. Safarkiller

    Safarkiller Fapstronaut

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    I love your word, i really dont know what i want i girl, i have 2 love style when in girl. 1. girl tht i really care love, handle with care, but for your imformation im like to stay single ,
    2. Girl tht i likes, i likes her voice, face, who she are, and i always wanna have sex with but i cant, more like sweet friend. As she want me too.
    Its it ok, with this life, ?
    But yah, no more porn no more maaturbate, no more orgasms by my self, just sexual attraction with sex
     

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