Frequent fapper since I was 12. Neve ejaculated during sex, bj, or hj.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Moonlight_Sentinel, Oct 15, 2017.

  1. Moonlight_Sentinel

    Moonlight_Sentinel New Fapstronaut

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    Hi all. I have been fapping since I was 12. On average it used to be once a day everyday, and sometimes more than once depending on the day. I just turned 28 now, and I have been masturbating a lot since a few weeks back, sometimes up to 5 times a day. I didn't realize the harmful effects fapping and porn had on me over the years and especially now.

    After doing research and reading about porn addiction, masturbation, I now realize my arousal and erections (over the years of watching porn and fapping) are directly linked to porn and certain mental fantasy. When I'm next to a real woman it's hard to be erect for long and even then those erections aren't that strong. I have never ejaculated during intercourse, blowjob, or handjob. Never. I finished myself off in the bathroom by again masturbation with certain fantasies. So I finally decided to take action and try NoFap.

    It's been 5 days now that I have been on Nofap. I'm trying my hardest to remove those thoughts that come up, or fantasize about erotic things, or watch porn. My brain has been trying to be sneaky since it wants it's high dosage of dopamines from porn. But I have been resilient thus far. Sometimes I do start thinking about dirty stuff but then i shut it down.
     
  2. r8js

    r8js Fapstronaut

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    very well written.
    same here looking for some practical small simple doable ways to tackle with pmo.
     
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  3. Moonlight_Sentinel

    Moonlight_Sentinel New Fapstronaut

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    Nice. Congrats on 10 days!
     
  4. BuildBedroomStrength

    BuildBedroomStrength New Fapstronaut

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    Hi - I'm in the same boat and now trying to rewire my brain. Being able to "finish" during real sex with a girl and not needing any pixels to get me going is why I'm here.

    Good Luck!
     
  5. getonwithit

    getonwithit New Fapstronaut

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    Hey! Congratulations on starting your journey! I'd urge you to proceed with this journey not just to be able to enjoy everything there is about sex with a real girl, but to also improve on other aspects of your life and as a person as well. You'll have a lot more time and energy for other things too. I'm in the same boat here, same generation, I'm 26 now and started at around 14. When I first started to notice pied creeping in I decided to put an abrupt stop to it all. I never want to be a slave to pmo. There's so much out there to life and I believe stepping out of this dark space will open our eyes to the true joys of life. Good luck on your journey!
     
  6. Moonlight_Sentinel

    Moonlight_Sentinel New Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to this wonderful journey.
     

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