Frequent Relapses and peculiar kink

So writing here in hope of receiving help from good samaritans.This is what my problem is like-


1.I started my NoFap journey since 8th February and have relapsed 5 times since then


2. Most of my relapses haven’t been to mainstream porn.


3. The major cause of my relapse is my fetish of indulging in a chat where I try fixing up a meet with a swinger couple on paid basis(I am unmarried though). Though I know that I will never spend precious bucks on such a thing, but the fetish of fixing up such a meeting drives my urges and us major cause of my relapses.


4. Another accompanying cause is my use of MeWe app which I use for fixing up things. Here I end up on many leaked sex scandal videos which are also causing my relapses to occur.


5. The consequence is that I end up wasting 5-6 hours and also a sense of drowsiness reduces my study hours to less than half the next day. From around 12-13 hours, it gets reduced to around 5-6 hours. Also the Brain Fog is very high on such days.


6. Also I have noticed that I haven’t tapped while being on study table in my room. I do relapse when I shift with my laptop to the bedding area.


Please do hep me. The Point numbers 3,4,5,6 are very important to be addressed. Thank you buddies.

 

Hey if anyone can help?