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Friends who talk about P and M a lot?

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by trance_frog, Mar 14, 2022.

  1. Mar 14, 2022 #1
    trance_frog

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    Not sure where to post this. But I have a friend who has no issues talking about P and M a lot. And I mean a lot.

    I have already learnt not mention NoFap, as he will just argue it.

    But I don't want to be that guy who tells him to shut the F up regularly.
     
    trance_frog, Mar 14, 2022
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  2. Mar 14, 2022 #2
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    Could you 1) tell him bluntly 'I'm not interested', 2) if that fails, find new friends
     
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  3. Mar 14, 2022 #3
    trance_frog

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    I am going to go with the first option, in my most diplomatic self. I told him to shut up about something else the other week and he took it onboard.

    In regards to option 2. Due to other things, I limit my time with him to just walking in the peaks really as he is the only person I know who is willing to go on 10+ mile walks regularly. But I have known him for 20+ years so kind of difficult to do.
     
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  4. Mar 14, 2022 #4
    trance_frog

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    Never actually thought of doing it that way. I know he has massive self image problems, and admits he is desperate and surprised if a woman wants anything to do with him. Then he won't go to the gym because he is already active and gyms are elitest.......,.... Yeah been there, tried that. But not about women finding the P habit disgusting.
     
    trance_frog, Mar 14, 2022
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  5. Mar 25, 2022 #5
    trance_frog

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    He mentioned P the other week. I mentioned I was on NoFap again so rather not talk about it. He got all moody and not really spoken to me since.

    Like.... whatever bruv.
     
    trance_frog, Mar 25, 2022
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  6. Mar 26, 2022 #6
    innermanchild

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    My friends know where I stand. I did have to cut off one old “friend,” who kept asking if he could send me porn. Awk.

    Yeah, I mean, you have to decide what you value most. Don’t want to throw away a 20-year relationship, but if he doesn’t respect your process, may leave you with no choice.

    Atst, sounds like you haven’t made it clear, which you should do in all fairness to him.
     
    innermanchild, Mar 26, 2022
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  7. Mar 26, 2022 #7
    JoeinUSA

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    Do you mean he is talking derogatory about Nofap recovery, or reveling in the whole PMO activity, pushing P even? Or, is he involved in recovery himself, whether on Nofap site or by himself, and he simply can't stop talking about it?
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    JoeinUSA, Mar 26, 2022
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  8. Mar 28, 2022 #8
    ConfusedYouth

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    Harsh! But true. You either stick with the same friend or go alone until you find friends that will fit in your journey. Your friend shapes your mind or mold you to become like them ( Acceptable, comfort, happy, warmth, recognizable, easy to go with the flow ) These are feeling I get with my old friends until I know in my heart. They are fucken losers. Smoking, partying, porn, sex, mindless talking. What the fuck are these? They respect me or haven’t say shit at my face. But one fact that I know is I don’t want to become like these motherfucker who drag you down from your accomplishments just to be like them. They ignored me for 3 months because they know I am fucken serious person or person who give Fuck about his life or have fucken boundary. Fuck them or let them destroy their life. It hurts me to say this because I have been with them since 7th grade. Slap your fucken face and move on. Stay strong brother. If you are taking this serious. It take sacrifice to become your best self.
     
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  9. Jul 29, 2022 #9
    Alcatel1312

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    Bro, at the end of the day. It is only you by yourself, everyman is for himself. Dont let the thought of you being friends with him for 20+ years stunt your mental growth. When you hahe negative people around you, it forms a barrier around you which you can not escape. I had to cut 10+ friends because of their negative mindset. You are a grown man and im pretty sure you can tell him to f off.
     
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