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From DE to PE in a few months

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Free your mind, Nov 16, 2020.

  1. Free your mind

    Free your mind Fapstronaut

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    I just want to share what's up with me.
    I was a heavy addict, because of my edging sessions I had delayed ejaculation issue since always, but still satisfying sex life.
    Last few years I developed PIED.. Since the last september I decided to change.. since then, I had sex 7 times. I had 12 orgasms in that period, 6 with partners, 6 alone.
    I had 3 partners..the first one (I was in love with) PIED twice, sucessfull sex twice but only 1 orgasm (barely managed to O). It was the beginning of the year.
    Next partner in August, ONS, I couldn't orgasm at all...she finished me off by mouth.

    And finally, last week...I orgamed prematurely. After a few minutes PIV with a condom. The second round was better..I lasted Maybe 10 minutes but again orgasm with a condom PIV. I felt great, I had a feeling that I conquered this shit of PIED.

    And then yesterday...without ED pills..I got hard, but my dick was so crazy sensitive. After 2 minutes of oral I orgasmed.
    Second round...I got hard, put a condom on, start and after a few strokes I was close to finishing. I pulled it out, but it quickly went limp. She finished me off with hands. She wasn't happy at all..
    What the hell is going on? Did I really sensitise my penis so much by abstaining?
    Any advice appreciated.
     
  2. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut

    It's super common to become too sensitive for enjoyment by yourself or your partner during sex. It may not seem so, but this situation is much preferred to ED.

    If you did your reboot correctly, you're in the period called the "rewire", where your body acclimates to sex and reinforces the behavior in your brain.

    At this point, you just have to keep having sex. Make sure your partners know beforehand that you probably won't last long, and make sure they know it's because you think they're super sexy and super arousing. This is also a great time to learn how to use your fingers and mouth to make girls cum.

    During sex, don't think about cumming or trying to hold it back. Just relax your body, don't "flex" your pelvis muscles, and just have a good time with her. Over time, your body will realize that longer sex feels better, and you'll also become more in tune with your arousal cycle, leading to longer and more satisfying sex.

    I had the same journey as you. Started off with PIED and DE. Did a reboot, then after sex for a month I could only last 3-5 minutes. Kept having sex 2-3 times a week for 2 months, after which I could last for as long as I wanted.
     
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  3. Free your mind

    Free your mind Fapstronaut

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    That sounds fantastic. Well, I prefere this state much more then inability to have sex at all. Still, the woman I was with wasn't satisfied and now she disappeared lol
    But it doesn't matter. I will find someone else.
    Thanks man for positive words. :)
     
  4. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut

    Girls who expect men to be sex machines are honestly not worth your time bro. She'd end up ditching you eventually for your vibrator.

    Just keep getting yourself out there, and find someone who wants to be with you...and also likes to fuck lol.

    Conversely, be aware that like yourself, women aren't just orgasm machines for you to cum in and help solve your PE. They're sexual beings, just like you, with wants and needs related and unrelated to sex. Don't worry about the girls who just want your dick, but don't go after girls just to get inside them either.
     
  5. WeShallNotFap

    WeShallNotFap Fapstronaut

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    10 minutes its a lot for me, i cant last 1.
     
  6. skibum71

    skibum71 Fapstronaut

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    Exactly. Dude you said last time, 1st round a few minutes, 2nd round 10 minutes - you do not have PE. Or at least not serious PE. Serious PE is literally lasting a few SECONDS. You penetrate your partner, you panic like fu(K because you're gonna blow your load immediately, which is what happens within 5 seconds, you pull out and a crushing sense of failure takes hold and you feel like SHIT. Thats PE. Not lasting as long as you'd like is one thing, PE is something different.
     

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