From Lurker to Member

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by dmann777, May 31, 2018.

  1. dmann777

    dmann777 New Fapstronaut


    My name is David. A warm hello to everyone. I was a long time lurker and I decided I needed the extra help that comes with membership. Hopefully active membership. I have a lot to read and download. A lot to catch up to. I’m on day 10 of a Reboot. My porn addiction started with my first iPhone. I recognized a problem when it impacted my marriage and work. My goal is 120 days. Short term goal is PMO free for 30 days. Again hello to all.
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  2. ItsHim

    ItsHim Fapstronaut

    Hello David! I joined today myself. Hopefully we can both get the support we need
  3. Hi. Welcome to forum!

    Make sure you crate a personal journal thread in Reboot Logs section and blog there on a regular basis. As well as just generally be active participant in various forum discussions. I recommend this to everybody new here because it's the major thing that helped me when I was first starting. Just lurking on forums, reading and learning is great. But it usually is so much more powerful to engage. It helps to keep us motivated and accountable when we are active part of community. And keeps this in front of our minds so we don't forget about importance of it and slip away in our old habits. Sharing is also therapeutic. This is a major reason why AA meetings work so good. But that was developed before internet era. These days we can get most of the same benefits online through communities like this. So don't underestimate the power of active participation.

    I would also like to suggest you to look into mindfulness meditation. It has helped me personally tremendously to learn how to deal with urges. It takes a while to get good at it and notice results, so you need to be consistent with it, but once you do it's very powerful. It has been used by sages for thousands of years to deal with various issues of the mind. And in recent decades the science is also catching up to what ancient sages have know for centuries. Meditation these days are widely used as very effective tool by psychologists for treating addiction and by neurologists for supporting recovery of the brain. It is a great exercise for the brain the same way as jogging is great exercise for the body. Check out this Ted talk, it gives a good idea of what's it about when it comes to philosophy. As far as practical side of it there is this awesome smartphone app called Headspace for guided meditations to get you started.

    Wish you lot's of strength and success in your reboot journey!

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