From PMO to sex addiction!

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Dat95, Jul 6, 2019.

  1. Dat95

    Dat95 Fapstronaut

    I had a bad stomachache this morning that left me bedbound for the entire day, so plenty of time to think. Then it suddenly hit me:

    If you can get addicted to porn, then you can also get addicted to sex!

    Now I’m a 23 yrs old virgin, never had sex before, currently struggling to fight off PMO and already experiencing all the benefits of nofap. In the future, I want to have sex with the opposite gender like a normal guy, but then there’s a posibility that I could get addicted to sex. I remember the first time I masturbate, just want to do it again and again and again, and I imagine my first sexual encounter to be no different! I could be well on my way back to square one, all of the shitty behaviors and feelings, just different method this time. Hell, I could turn into a serial rapist or something!

    What are your thoughts and experience on this matter? Please share it with me.

    Thank you and stay strong my friends!
     
  2. I would complete the 90 days and then re-evaluate the situation.
     
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  3. Dat95

    Dat95 Fapstronaut

    Hmm is 90 days without sex in a romantic relationship viable???
     
  4. yeahman

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    I think you are overthinking it. The first is to get a partner who is someone you have some feelings for, and she for you. Then you start having sex, as well as do other things together: Go to the movies, out to dinner, shopping, taking long walks on the beach (there really is such a thing). You're not likely to go to the movies every day, and though at first in all my relationships, my partner and I had sex like crazy in the beginning, we actually found other things to do. It's called life.

    Also, if you do find a woman who wants to have sex constantly, you will be a lucky, and tired man. But first and foremost, find someone who you simply like being with, and who likes being with you.
     
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  5. ADGiving

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    trust me it is very different
     
  6. Anubis Rises

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    just because a man loves sex dont mean hes going to be a rapist, rapists are usually on another route, rapists commonly arent under the sex addiction category, so dont worry to much about it, youll just be a man that loves sex an love woman thats all , i understand you never had sex , dont let your mind wonder there, dont worry at all, NoFap has made me heather an i love sex now i can say its a new experience and a gift
     
  7. Anubis Rises

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    healthier not heather lol
     
  8. Anubis Rises

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    the worst thing sex addiction can do is cause one to sleep with another mans wife ,adultery, man slut, certified man whore, international gigolo lol:D
     
  9. 19m

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    i’ve had this happen to me and went into guys who were crossdressers and transgender women because i felt not good enough or not good looking for real women so i was addicted for that for years and it’s been a real struggle but have been fighting orgasming . and i’m on regular no day 60 and have had bad intrusive thoughts with hocd and i know the reason why this happened was because i’ve only been sexually experienced once and always had negative thoughts . just stay positive and believe and you will overcome it i’m doing it right now.
     

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