From Porn to Instagram, Badoo, Tinder, social dating apss FAP

Can any of you relate to this modification - till my 20y I used porn to fap. In my 20-21y I discovered Tinder, Badoo as dating apps with the aim to date with girls.

However, after my first sexting (girls sent me nudes and described how they want sex), it was for me even more attractive and satisfying than porn because it seemed to be closer to reality and I could influence the girl I texted with in comparison to pornstar in the video.
So, I started to prefer Tinder, Badoo (later on Instagram) to "date"... In reality to find girls for sexting. Instead of watching Porn for 30-40 mins (one session). I would spend 3-4 hours on dating social apps - looking for girls to date/sexting and of course texting/sexting with them. During all these 3 hours sessions I would fapped all the time, even when I just logged in or signed in.

Sometimes during those sessions, I noticed that I did not have an erection what was really strange and quite scary, but it was satisfying to me to masturbate during being on dating apps even if I did not have an erection. Also, I started to do it with my left hand.

BRAIN CHANGE/CHANGE OF GOAL OF MY FAP: When I did it with porn the goal was an orgasm. But from that time the goal was edging, long hours on social dating apps, often fapping without an erection, searching for that rise of excitement if some girl sends me expected nudes or even fapping and listing through profiles of girls.
Now I do not even remember how it was to fap on Porn. Very orgasm is not so satisfying as edging and keeping me in a state of high excitement with social apps or with sex images in my head.

Does anybody want a similar way? Can you describe more details? (I suppose it will help to better describe and understand our position)