Frustrated and angry : can't get erection when I'm standing up

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by nofepfepforlife, Jun 24, 2017.

  1. drkarim

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    Hope i rrecover soon
     
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  2. nofepfepforlife

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    just be patient...do no porn, no masturbation and no orgasm for 5-8 months and ill bet money youll see huge improvements. the key is sticking to it and being honest with yourself.
     
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  3. walkingCorpse

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    I don't understand why everyone asked this guy why standing erection is so important. Don't you have to be upright even if you are not standing on foot. Unless it is the girl on top.
     
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  4. drkarim

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    Yes its important even in dogie postition u are upright
     
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  5. nofepfepforlife

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    dont worry guys, chances are most of us dont have a serious pelvic floor problem. i was convinced it was all to do with my floor being condition from years of fapping in a computer chair but soon as i healed enough and put myself with a REAL GIRL my dick suddenly stood up all on its own, fully hard in pure glory.
     
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  6. drkarim

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    Are u still going well or the performance is on and off?
     
  7. nofepfepforlife

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    dunno yet, i wont be getting laid for another 30 days. i relapsed early this year so im in the middle of a fresh reboot.
     
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  8. Zaman1994

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    What changes did you find after reboot?
     
  9. nofepfepforlife

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    physically? getting consistent morning woods and being able to maintain a hard erection with a girl...delayed ejaculation took some time to go away though.
     
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  10. Philomath

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    Overcoming DE is the primary reason I'm embracing Nofap. Can you comment on how long it took you to remedy it?
     
  11. drkarim

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    So u have good consistent erections but delayed ejaculation?
     
  12. Philomath

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    Yeah, once I get hard I'm pretty ok once I'm being stimulated. Receiving oral makes me super hard, and I can stay hard PIV. I just can't friggin' cum. :eek:
     
  13. nofepfepforlife

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    biggest advice i can give you for overcoming DE is :

    stay away from ALL artificial stimulation. porn, images, fb, Instagram prowling etc etc. all your sexual arousal should be coming from the real thing, this will help you rewire.

    and second : having sex with a real person.

    as for how long it took, im still not quite where i was before porn addiction but it improved A LOT. after about having sex half a dozen times i was FINALLY able to ejaculate but it took me like an hour! and every time after that took me an hour and some times more! Eventually though I got it down to 30-40 mins (30 on a good day). I've been on a full nofap stint/no orgasm run for 150+ days now and I'll be meeting up with my LDR gf on november 1st so we'll see if I've improved since then...but I believe ill be a lot better this time.
     
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  14. Hi all, found this post in search of an answer for the same issue. However, I have a different predicament. I don't masterbate, I don't watch porn, I'm healthy, I exercise regularly and eat right. My oxygen levels are nearly 100% great blood flow levels.

    Ive been reading however that a varicocele may have an effect on such things which is the difference between laying down which I'm fine versus standing up, so I'm wondering how many of the folks that are having the same issue know if they have varicocele and if they noticed any difference in their scrotum while trying to erect?

    Thanks
     
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  15. Aybadi

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    Agree with u
     
  16. BumbleTheBee

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    Ant updates on your condition ?
     
  17. nofepfepforlife

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    its 100% PIED related, nothing to do with pelvic floor (at least in my case).
     
  18. Uruvug

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    Hey nofepfepforlife,

    I am interested in this since I also have more difficulty maintaining an erection while standing up or kneeling, than when I am laying down or seated. So I am curious. You say that the issue was solved. Does it remain that way? or do you still encounter the problem from time to time. Also, you said you did like a 6 month reboot, so did you masturbate without ejaculating to see if it would get hard? or did you now masturbate at all and only tried it while having sex?
     
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  19. nofepfepforlife

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    soon as i met with my gf and started having sex i had absolutely no issues maintaining an erection in a standing or seated position. it is POSSIBLE for it to be a pelvic floor issue but im dead-set this is almost always caused by PIED. soon as you get over PIED your d*** will stand up on its own no problems, believe me.
     
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  20. harold591

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    Hi nofepfepforlife,

    Do you think that doing the reboot without porn nor masturbation but having real sex with a real girl (PM-Mode) would eventually fix the erection problems when standing up? I'm sick of it because I don't even remember when this problem started. I got a new girlfriend and I won't see her for 45 days so I think I can work the Hard mode those days until I see her.
     

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