Frustrated and angry : can't get erection when I'm standing up

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by nofepfepforlife, Jun 24, 2017.

  1. milkbutter biscuits

    milkbutter biscuits Fapstronaut

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    I can see doing no porn and no masturbation for 5-8 months. But no orgasm seems difficult especially if you have a girlfriend that wants sex a lot. I supposed I could stop myself from having one. Maybe I'll get better at orgasm control. I will definitely implement what you said.
     
  2. Csamrat1234

    Csamrat1234 Fapstronaut

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    Do you get any cure regarding the same, I am too suffering the problem,please suggest any silsolut
     
  3. nofepfepforlife

    nofepfepforlife Fapstronaut

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    Hard mode it out for the next 45 days man, don't screw up! You may get a nice surprise when you're with her. As I always say though, hard mode is the only way to go, half measures will only delay and even sometimes halt progress.
     
  4. nofepfepforlife

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    That depends a lot on the relationship you have with your GF. If she can be okay with no sex for several months, if it's a long distance relationship etc... I'm in a LDR and it was pretty straight forward for me to do no orgasm.

    Anyway, the single biggest thing that will harm your progress is looking at porn, fapping to porn, thinking of porn and imo even masturbating with just your imagination (as it is not the real thing and often leads to thoughts of pornography).
     
  5. MrLoner

    MrLoner Fapstronaut

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    Does having too frequent sex cause you to have problems again? Or once you are cured, you are cured as long as you stay away from PM?
     
  6. nofepfepforlife

    nofepfepforlife Fapstronaut

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    On my first reboot sex and orgasm eventually brought me back to full blown PIED. On my second reboot I lasted a lot longer before sex wore me down again...mind you it didnt give me complete ED this time, this time my erections just got weaker and sometimes it took me longer to climax. It gets better eventually. Some people stay cured once they do a full reboot...some people like me are taking a verrryyyy long time to keep and maintain progress.
     
  7. MrLoner

    MrLoner Fapstronaut

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    :(( fuck... How long were your reboots?
     
  8. nofepfepforlife

    nofepfepforlife Fapstronaut

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    First reboot in 2017 was 8 months. Then my second reboot lasted about 5.4 months (met up with my long distance gf for 4.5 months) now I'm on my third reboot...probably should reset my counter lol.

    I wont lie though, after my first 8 month reboot, the moment I got into having sex my erections were like pure hard steel. If you can last that long then you have something to look forward to!
     
  9. Newguy206

    Newguy206 Fapstronaut

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    Hey man, congrats on curing your ed. How long did it take for you to first have intercourse? And did you have dead dick? If you did what days did it last from?
     
  10. nofepfepforlife

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    i went 8 months until my first round of sex. for me dead dick was something that came in waves. some days or weeks my dick would seem dead and then suddenly sensitivity went through the roof.
     
  11. Newguy206

    Newguy206 Fapstronaut

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    When did you start to see some real progress? What were your first three months like? Sorry for all the questions, this just seems so hopeless right now. I made some good progress until day 56 where I had a wet dream. Since then i've been having dead dick and been in a flatline lol
     
  12. nofepfepforlife

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    It's different for every person and in my own personal experience, its different for every reboot. I've had like two long reboots and this is now my third. Each time was different. Theres no way of telling when you will see improvement, it will come when it comes. Expect flatlines, expect urgres, expect random boners, expect dead dick, expect low libido, expect super powers, expect the unexpected. Some guys are healed in 90 days, some take 6-12 months, a few cases I've read about it took the guys 2 years to heal, and the worst case I ever saw took 3!
     
  13. Fighting4success

    Fighting4success New Fapstronaut

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    I am also suffering with pied and the same problem of loosing erections when standing position I am doing nofap and no porn from 2017 September but relapsed around every 30 to 40 days now I am in 55th day. Now I am getting morning and spontaneous erections but when I standup I am loosing it.i am following this site from one year but today only I am sharing my problem and experiences
     
  14. Zimzi

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    Bro do all of the things suggested that u can. Trust it will work out.
     
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  15. drkarim

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    The strange thing is the standing erections i donot know why specifically them are lost easily
     
  16. nofepfepforlife

    nofepfepforlife Fapstronaut

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    guys its fine, i recovered from this problem. its entirely a PIED symptom.
     
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  17. Nuallann

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    I started using a filing cabinet as a stand up desk for when I'm working. Used to sit down 12 hours a day, now im standing up 10+, and lifting/running an hour a day. I've deff noticed my body is recovering my ability to get erection standing up.
     
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  18. nofepfepforlife

    nofepfepforlife Fapstronaut

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    yeah i spent years seated in front of my PC edging to porn. last 2 years i've been getting regular exercise daily.
     
  19. Depressed&Out

    Depressed&Out Fapstronaut

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    It's good on you to share it!
     
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  20. Donpers

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    I think i have the same problem you had. I fapped always in seated positions for years. I don't have difficulties getting hard while im seated, but i loose my erection in few seconds if i standup. How did you fix it? Please help me, did reverse kegels help you?
     

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