Frustrated and angry : can't get erection when I'm standing up

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by nofepfepforlife, Jun 24, 2017.

  1. drkarim

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    Iam the opposite i used to fap on bed now i can not have an erevtion except when iam lying on bed
     
  2. RollerCoaster

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    how?
     
  3. Depressed&Out

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    I already asked that.... no response.
     
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  4. Donpers

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    Should i retrain my brain
    to fap standing up? Does it help?
     
  5. drkarim

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    I think from medical point of view it should work however currently i donot have lipido anyway, so its kinda useless to start that thing
     
  6. drkarim

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    Because it just depends on habitual training +conditioning
     
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  7. nofepfepforlife

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    yes a big part of this is conditioning but this is entirely a PIED issue. stop fapping and looking at porn for a long time THEN start re-wiring to real sex partners. it'll solve itself.
     
  8. drkarim

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    Yes u are right ...actually iam taking a gradual approach in ruducing p use and fapping and i managed now to nearly reach tenth of my usage time and have a current gf however lipido is not consistent and sometimes i can have an erection while she is seducing me and sometimes i canot.. time will tell time will heal
     
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  9. nofepfepforlife

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    if you want to heal you need to be sexually abstinent. no pictures, no screwing around, no fapping and NO PORN!
     
  10. drkarim

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    U mean not even with my gf?
     
  11. nofepfepforlife

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    Any and all sexual stimulation will slow and even halt your healing progress.
     
  12. drkarim

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    Okay
     
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  13. dave myers

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    How are you now? How is your sex performance? Do you have still same problem?
     
  14. TheSlyFly

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    haven't read through the thread, but I would hope someone would have mentioned keegles and reverse keegles along with PE(penis exercises) as that helps a lot with ED
     
  15. RollerCoaster

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    penis exercises?
     
  16. TheSlyFly

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    look up PEGym about keegles, reverse keegles, and PE start with JP90
     
  17. drkarim

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    Yes for sorry i still have problems in sexual performance and i still canot stop pmo completely so with my gf have inconsistent erections
     
  18. Environmental Specialist

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    Loved this thread and the way you encouraged other solution seekers. I am going through the same issue and hope to improve upon the reboot.
     
  19. BlackMamba6

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    I am sorry bru, dont want to ruin the optimism but totally sounds like venous leak to me. There is very little evidence of pelvic floor issues etc causing this type of dysfunction. The reason you are able to maintain standing erection after 30-40 days of noFap is not because you have cured anything but simply because you are so horny by that time that the increased blood flow to the Penis compensates for the leak - and that also explains why you "relapse" after a single jizz- you are no longer extra horny so the blood flow goes back to normal. It also explains why you are able to move around with morning erections - blood flow to Penis is very high in the morning and compensates for the leak. I would refrain from giving wrong advice that sexual stimulation etc will halt healing progress. Nothing could be further from the truth. A lot of cases of venous leak are simply because tissue in the corpora has turned fibrotic due to poor blood flow and the only chance to salvage that is to increase blood flow to the Penis and hope that smooth muscle is generated. That is the reason why a lot of diabetics and people with prostate surgery end up getting venous leak - their nerves are damaged and by the time the nerves heal after 1-2 years, their corpora has turned fibrotic due to poor blood flow and lack of erections. Another cause is a defect in the Tunica - and again, only more blood flow has any chance of curing that. I really hope you dont have venous leak, but the problem you have described is a textbook symptom of that.
     
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  20. Nuallann

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    I had issues maintaining erections standing up, but I went through 6 Gainswave treatments, and 2 PRP shots, and it completely reversed the issues. The Gainswave is proven to break up fibrous materials, it's often used to reverse, and treat peyronie's disease. It also creates new, younger, healthy blood vessels, and opens up, and regenerates older ones by stimulation healing factors, and stem cells. The PRP works a lot like stem cells, and has been proven to reverse mild Venous Leakage. If I had a venous leak, it's gone, though I suspect I mostly had inflow issues due to plaque build up.
     

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