FUUUUCK!!! HELP ME! #blueBalls

You shouldn't have edged. You got yourself excited and your body prepared all of the backed up semen you had from not jacking off for so long in expectance of O'ing. Since you didn't, it's just sitting there, leading to your blueballs. Don't relapse, you'll just have to deal for a little while. They'll eventually go away, and you'll have a nocturnal emission at some point which will get rid of all that extra for you.

Next time you get the urge to edge, do something else instead. Watch a movie, go for a walk, do some push ups, etc. It'll prevent this from happening again.

 

everyone defines their own relapse. I have found that if I have not O in the last few days and I try to edge I usually end up with blue balls. Take a look down at them you will probably see the veins you engorged that have not been released... thats where the blue ball name is. I think you may have to cut out edging. If I were you I would release that pressure and start over.
For me I used to tell myself that edging was ok. I had a couple good experiences edging then several days later having some of the best encounters of my life with women. However, I have found that this is rare. More often than not after I edge I am horrible in bed the next time. I woke up today really in need, and decided to edge. I was going to leave it at that, but then I thought about the recent experiences with a women after I edge and I decided it was best to release. I think this is my general consensus, if I am seriously edging then I should release, if its just a couple pumps then its not really edging and I think you can get away without blue balls or negative side effects.