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getting a gf

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by blackie98, Jun 20, 2018.

  1. Jun 20, 2018 #1
    blackie98

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    Is having a gf to counter masturbation a wise/effective idea? Like not just to use her but to actually have a real relationship and through that, help in stopping PMO? Would that be ok?
     
    blackie98, Jun 20, 2018
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  2. Jun 23, 2018 #2
    g2stop

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    Yes
     
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  3. Jun 24, 2018 #3
    davem7

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    nope
     
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  4. Jun 24, 2018 #4
    primaljade

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    I have a lot of experience with this, and can assure you it will have no reduction in PMO in the long run. A gf/wive isn't going to be around 24/7 to have sex with on your whim, unlike your hand.

    The good news is, having a relationship (causal or otherwise) is good to have anyway. Though I recommend you get a GF *after* you've resolved addiction/anxiety/personal issues, so you can make a clear-headed decision. Or, if she gives you "the talk", give her a disclaimer about any issues you have, which will require her to accept you in order for her to be your GF.
     
    primaljade, Jun 24, 2018
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