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Getting back in the groove

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by NFA_YoungBoy, Oct 14, 2020.

  1. NFA_YoungBoy

    NFA_YoungBoy Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone I started my nofap journey because of what I believe to be PIED problems. I was dating a woman a few months back could not get hard for our first sexual encounter I felt totally embarrassed she basically humiliated me called me weirdo. In anger I cut off all communication discovered nofap and I’ve been 21 days on hard mode. That horrible moment has replayed in my head I will never go back to viewing porn. I recently met another girl who has been great we talk everyday. It’s long distance but we plan to meet soon by the time we reach a point of any thing sexual happening I could have 60 or more days but in the back of my mind I’m nervous to not perform. Have any of you guys used natural male enhancement pills? I don’t want to be dependent on medication or supplements but I don’t want to lose out on a potentially good thing.
     
  2. Love2LongBoard

    Love2LongBoard Fapstronaut

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    You never lose out by waiting. There is no reason to rush it. If your main objective is to have sex, because of the way you have wired your brain through pornography use, that could be a big issue.

    True emotional and physical connection with another person is the opposite of pornography use. If you objective is to connect emotionally and physically with someone you really care about, because of PIED, there still might be a problem. So wait.

    You will never lose out on a good thing by taking your time. Let yourself reboot. That's my advice.
     
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  3. rob13_

    rob13_ Fapstronaut

    Consider that girl having done you a favor. Anyone who shames another for a medical problem they can't control is utter trash, and good on you for cutting them out.
     
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  4. AnthonyyVibess

    AnthonyyVibess Fapstronaut

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    Facts she was most likely insecure her damn self lol most ppl in general i like to believe are chill abt sex and go on abt their business not humiliate whoever they’re with
     
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  5. NFA_YoungBoy

    NFA_YoungBoy Fapstronaut

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    Yeah I really see it as good thing now no longer dating her she had no empathy for my situation. I’ve never felt so embarrassed in all my life but I’m hopeful nofap will really lead to long term healing.
     
  6. NFA_YoungBoy

    NFA_YoungBoy Fapstronaut

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    I think she definitely had some insecurities from being cheated on in the past.
     
  7. NFA_YoungBoy

    NFA_YoungBoy Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for the advice! I won’t try to rush anything and just focus on healing.
     

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