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Getting bored of cam sites

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Jun 10, 2020.

  1. Cam sites are fun and all , and there are some absolutely gorgeous girls and women on.

    But the appeal seems to be very limited after awhile .

    See some gorgeous women if shit if your bored chat some shit make them laugh .

    But at the end of the day it's really kind of pathetic , it's a one sided show that seems to leave a lot of people out of pocket .

    There are girls in there that are unreal , but your really only teasing yourself.

    I find the whole thing pretty boring now , I haven't gone NoFap very long so without a doubt if I did and decided to watch it again it wouldn't be . This is coming from someone who originally had a long period being addicted to it.

    Did anyone have a long-term addiction here and then just stop completely
     
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  2. I spent thousands of dollars on cam models. Then I fell in love (deep infatuation) with one. After spending lots of money on her I finally had an epiphany when she started laughing and mocking me when I started begging her for more contact with her.

    I realized I was being a stupid immature spineless fool.

    It was the last time I had any interaction with cam models. I started setting financial goals that included investing my money wisely. No more cam models for me.

    I’m a zero when it comes to meeting women but I’m better off staying single and female free than to toss my money and time away into the bottomless pit of cam models.
     
  3. There not good for you man end of , they may look beautiful but there happy to manipulate guys for money, it's a two sided coin, it's not there responsibility if you watch it or not

    And they are exposing themselves for your pleasure , but that said thered be something wrong with you if all you ever saw was naked flesh, it's a pretty dirty game tbh.

    Sure they look beautiful , nice and sweet girls and women,

    I used to watch cams a few years ago and people who cammed then used to do it mostly for fun

    Cams now are generally very boring , and you don't want to start using it for an emotional connection that will never be good. Half the time the girls won't speak , and the mods will dime in.

    The girls will react to your charm or humor with flicking there eyelashes , smiling and looking pretty . There so good at it it's unreal.

    I've watched cam models when I had been coming down of prescription drugs which made it all the more easy to fall for it .

    I now know why I had subconsciously escalate to other areas of porn , because cams are the biggest waste of your time and money if you spend it .

    Who wants to be watching cams waiting for something to happen when there literally just trying to pmo, its turned a quick knuckle shuffle into somewhere you can be manipulated a prolonged session . It has to be the worst wank in history

    And getting emotionally connected is good for them not for you .

    That's not good . Not at all.

    Call it what it is, it's a dirty game
     
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  4. OhWhenThe

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    I don't have much problem staying away from straight up porn but these cam sites just suck me back in over and over again.

    Of course I know it's all fake but it's still real women reacting to what you're saying/doing, something you don't have when simply watching a video or looking at pictures. A lot of people would probably say cam girls are a softer form of porn but when you have that added layer of interaction I actually think they're worse. Thankfully I never sunk too much money into these sites but I feel I've done a lot of damage to myself mentally from going on them as they blur the lines between fantasy and reality. One girl in particular I am completely besotted with even though I know she's a complete hustler, it kind of feels like going through a break up staying away from her which I know is sad and lame asf.

    I'm determined to never go back though, I can't live a life falling for pixel girls anymore.
     
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  5. I can fully relate. They seemed so sweet and nice. But they’re only interested in getting my money and nothing more.

    To me now it’s just another form of prostitution. Something to stay away from.
     
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  6. Cam sites are a tricky thing especially if you're trying to overcome NoFap. I was also addicted to it for a while but I found a way to block myself from the sites. Even if I wanted to I couldn't spend another dime. I haven't removed myself from the site entirely since I still go there to chat but I have to be careful now that I just started NoFap again.
     
  7. Envoy-ofthe-End

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    I like to go on chaturbate buy 100 tokens and get girls to do ridiculous shit for like 5 tokens a piece lol. That´s why it´s so addicting it´s disgusting. I like to find the pretty ones in the bottom of the barrel when they´re new, makes it more fun. I also have fun when these dudes go on and start saying that I don´t appreciate them for offering close to nothing and I just insult them and call them simps. I know they want my money but they´re going to work for it. I don´t care for them as they don´t care for me or know who I am. Honestly I think these cam sites are the worst as it gives a feeling of virtual reality. It´s pure meth, with no overdose.
     
  8. goalreacher

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    Cam girls are absurd. When it all started I said "wow, girls in live action, thats cool". But time passes and now they have lost that "new thing", there are too much of them and they are totally focused on ur money, they dont even masturbate normally, teasing during 8 hours or more with those stupid toys and asking for tips. They lost the natural thing. But meanwhile still there are guys who waste money on them, they keep showing, but they are bored and tired... You can see it in their faces.
     
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  9. renew1

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    i think this style of platform could actually begin to be part of a recurring cycle of PIED .

    i mean its not how things happen in the natural world. you get with a girl and the ques and responses are there . you dont suddenly stop for $5 tip here and there and them nothing happens
    very very unhealthy. especially if people use this long-term. all you have to do is read the comments. everyone's bored
     
    Last edited: Oct 20, 2022
  10. bloudermilk24

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    i understand ive spent so much money on cam girls its hurt my career, friendships, and relationships with other girls
     
  11. Wolf7

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    If you’re bored of it then stop watching it lol. Simple solution
     
  12. Flimsyfryingpan

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    I can say that I have watched them, BUT never threw money at them thankfully.

    Mainly its because I did see through the facade of it all. Seeing all these guys begging for the attention and the amounts of money being thrown around. No wonder some only show up at certain times of the Month because hell it practically pays for their rent and expenses to last them into the next. Like whats been said in here before they dont care anything about you at all they just want your money. I can guarantee that they already have a boyfriend or 3 on the side that they brag to about how much money they made off of a cam session or their OF account. The saddest ones I have seen were the ones that were like "I cant wait until Friday (or whenever payday comes) so I can shower you with $$$ and see you". Its extremely sad.

    Then the Moderators are equally as sad because they think they have reached one step closer to getting the attention they want from the model. Maybe they get a few kick backs here and there of free content or a thank you message from them for keeping the room in control. In all they think they are "Digital Bouncers", but in reality they have one hand on the keyboard and the other hand on you know what like everyone else watching. They just have a title.

    Anyways I think its because of the age group that I fall into (40) also that I know better than to pay for cam girls or subscribe to their content on the many platforms that are out there. Then again I took it further when it comes to blowing money on unhealthy sexual activity, but thats a story for another time as im still writing it up. My point being I wish more and more would wake up to how much they are throwing away to cam models or subscribing to their content. As stated above they just want your money and not you. Just because they responded your your "DM" doesnt make you special, they did the same for the many others vying for their attention. Your just a sucker to them. The End.
     
  13. Rebooter21

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    Me too
     

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