As of now, I'm going through a lot of crap in my life. Such as looking for work and getting nowhere, dealing with more stress, getting terminated from my internship, and course, having no girlfriend...Having said that, I'm having difficultly trying to hang in there when I see a lot of people (mostly my friends) be in a relationship. For example, my best friend is getting married this year. My other best friend just go into this first relationship 6 months ago. My brother, on the other hand, recently has a new girlfriend 3 months ago. And finally, my youngest brother is dating with this girl in high school. The sad part is that I'm the oldest and I still haven't been in a relationship yet! I've never been so distracted by relationships in my life. The worst part was that last year I was heartbroken by this woman, and it was the worst emotional pain I've ever felt. To top it all all off, I was hurt a second time by another female who was the girl of my dreams. She apparently chose another guy over me. That's why I'm very cautious about relationships and I don't even want to think about it. And to make matters worse, every time when I hang out with my best friend, his girlfriend is always there. Not that I don't like her (we're good friends actually), but they always flirt in front of me. It gets pretty annoying sometimes. So how do I deal with this? It's bad enough that my best friend is always constantly saying, "You need a girlfriend" when the last thing I want to even THINK about is getting a girlfriend. That's annoying too. Anyway, how can I not distract myself when things aren't going so well and when most of my friends and brothers are in a relationship?