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Getting extremely frustrated

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by CanadianBassist, Dec 16, 2017.

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  1. CanadianBassist

    CanadianBassist Fapstronaut

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    Prepare yourself for some venting, because I'm properly pissed off. I am a single 18 year old virgin with no life outside of school, work, and the internet. I spend a lot of time alone (which, being an introvert, is something I value) most of which is spent thinking about porn. It's been almost a week since I watched porn, every night getting to sleep has been a fucking chore. Porn is literally all I can think about even when I'm doing things that I enjoy. Nothing but porn, porn, porn. Even right now, as I type this, I'm thinking about porn. This is fucked, and I don't deserve it. I know it's an addiction, I know it's unhealthy, and I know I just recently had a massive crisis regarding my sexuality, but how the fuck I'm I supposed to know if that had anything to do with my porn watching? With the exception of that one incredibly unpleasant experience, I was much, much happier before when I was watching porn regularly, and there's no reason for me to even feel guilty about it because I'm an Atheist. I've felt like complete garbage this entire week, and I want it to stop. You guys need to come up with some seriously good reasons because "oh it'll probably get better soon" isn't gonna stop me from deleting my account, and then watching a marathon of Alex Grey and Alexis Chrystal eating out other girls and getting ploughed. And if nobody responds within the hour, that's exactly what I'm doing.
     
  2. you are still very young. i am 28 and only had sex once and could not even stay erect. the craving for porn is your addiction speaking. i would visit the success section of this site if you want proof it will work. 1 week is nothing in the grand scheme of things. If you delete your account it won't affect any of us only yourself
     
  3. also a famous porn actress that i believe has done scenes with them, August Ames has just committed suicide a few days ago. most porn stars themselves live miserable lives and often suffer from depression and drug abuse. the life expectancy of a performer is 36 years old!!
     
  4. CanadianBassist

    CanadianBassist Fapstronaut

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    Hahahahaha... You know, that's pretty much word for word the exact response I was expecting, minus the fact that you didn't say I need to find god. You know who believes everything they read on the internet? An idiot. You can't tell me that you have any proof that a MAJORITY of those people have completely fabricated everything they said. I don't give a shit what a week is in the grand scheme of things, I care about what I just had to deal with while still trying to live my life normally. I don't drink, I don't do drugs, I weigh 120 pounds and go to the gym regularly, all that shit is hard enough to do as it is, and removing something else from my life only makes it more difficult. And you know what? I'd rather deal with occasional depression than constant anxiety and the thought of ploughing every remotely attractive girl I see. You have no clue what a week is like for me, and you trying to downplay it does nothing but piss me off.
     
  5. 57yrold

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    Man, I'm really sorry to hear you're having a tough time.

    I wrote a post a while ago where I was EXTREMELY frustrated. I think I know how you feel, and I bet a lot of people here know how you feel.

    My recommendation is to read as much as you can about porn addiction, PMO, rebooting, etc.

    Check out yourbrainonporn.com and rebootnation.org

    The more information you have about all this, the better armed you'll be!

    Read the success stories. Very inspiring, and you'll get some great info about what to do when you get the urges.

    Hang in there man. It's no easy, but it'll be worth the fight!
     
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  6. early recovery can be tough, it can even suck at times but
    its does get better. takes time and effort

    iam in my 40s and only started this journey earlier this yr
    currently going through some challenges but we
    gotta keep fighting man.
    i sure wish id discovered a site like this when i was your age
    had no idea the damage P does

    def check out the suggested material that 57 supplied.

    seriously wish you the best Bro
     
  7. BadThoughtAreAllowed

    BadThoughtAreAllowed Fapstronaut

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    If u dont have any motivation, there is no reason for you to do this. If u are introvert, u still will be introvert, it isnt magic,but i hope u atleast give this a try, u dont loose anything for trying, good luck.
     
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  8. anewversion

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    Take it easy and don't beat yourself up.

    Do some research mate. Google nofap, YouTube nofap, educate yourself. It's the only way your be able to overcome these urges.

    Start here:

     
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  9. Some of the discouraging posts on this thread have been deleted. To all users, please be respectful of each other.
     
  10. By not watching porn. And that massive crisis sounds like things weren't all roses and sunshine while you were watching porn.

    See above.
     
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  11. Aadam Khan

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    I have just relapsed. I am very annoyed as I had went 5 days without it, and literally don’t know what to do anymore. Can somebody please tell me how to stop masturbating and watching porn?
     
  12. Nobody said this is easy. They just said it's worth it.


    @Aadam Kahn If you don't have a hobby or sport or something like that to occupy your time and thoughts, you should get one.

    People around here recommend cold showers.

    This is hard, because you are young, but you also have so much to gain. You can basically have your whole adolescent and adult sex life be normal. I'm 62, I wish I'd known at 15 what you know now! I could have avoided wasting so much of my life on this crap! I really regret squandering so much of my time and energy on this garbage.

    It is especially important to *not* go through your teens and early 20s PMOing. This period is when your brain is setting itself up for how to live your life. See yourbrainonporn.com for more details.


    Nobody said this is easy. They just said it's worth it.
     
    Last edited: Dec 22, 2017

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