Getting kinda soft during doggystyle, helpp

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by modernstore99, Feb 11, 2019.

  1. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut

    I just did a 90-day reboot hoohoo. Before the reboot I couldn't get an erection for more than 5 minutes with a girl, and now I can keep an erection for the entire period of intercourse, and I orgasm consistently and in a timely manner. However, I notice that whenever in doggystyle or standing positions with my gf, I get a bit softer and lose some sensation in my dick. I know a lot of guys have this problem coming onto this site, but not after the reboot. Will this get better? Is there anything I can do to remedy this?
     
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  2. IGY

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    The first thing to say is CONGRATULATIONS - 90 days no PM is a good effort.

    However, you have not rebooted. The 90 day challenge is not a guarantee of rebooting as we are all different and our histories, although similar, are different. It is very rare that someone has rebooted in only three months. It is unheard of for someone to do so unless they were strictly observing hard mode. But as you have been sexually active, that will have slowed down your recovery also. Apart from that, you still have some ED, as you explained. So continue with your no PM regimen and you will eventually reboot in the months to come. It is encouraging that you can satisfying intercourse now, though, so continue as you are for even greater benefits.
     
  3. modernstore99

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    @IGY I'm pretty sure I rebooted. Before the 90 days I could not hold a 50% erection for more than 5 minutes, and now I'm having 100% erections, timely sexual intercourse (15-20 minutes), and I'm finishing every time. I didn't watch any porn or use any other erotic material, and I didn't stimulate my dick at all, by my own hand or someone else's (hardmode). I started sex again only after the reboot, when I was feeling ready to (I was basically walking around with boners all the time). Everything has been perfect so far, I just am noticing I go from like 100% to 80% when in doggy or standing. I'm wondering whether this goes away. I'm guessing my body just needs to get used to sex standing up but idk. If you have personal experience that would be great
     
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  4. IGY

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    I have none.
     
  5. Max Fisher

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    Maybe doggy style is just not your thing. If you are having sex in other positions just fine I would stick to that for now and not stress too much.
     
  6. Rewiring

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    I had a doggy style with my ex gf once, but before insertion my bro became softer.

    I guess changing position affect the blood flow since i was half standing with my foot folded. And at that time i was thinking about our surroundings so we cannot do it out loud XD

    Distraction makes me less focus so in my case i guess that's the problem.
     
  7. ReclaimedLife

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    :emoji_joy::emoji_joy::emoji_joy::emoji_joy::emoji_joy::emoji_joy:

    How is your girlfriend still alive after your first time you had sex together??:emoji_smile::emoji_smile::emoji_smile:
     
  8. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut

    Foreplay and Astro-Glide :emoji_grin::emoji_grin::emoji_grin:
     
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  9. modernstore99

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    Tbh the first time we had sex I got a little bit softer (like 70-80%). This is pretty typical after a reboot because your brain is still figuring out what it likes. Now I'm always hard, just less so in certain positions
     
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