Getting Married in 1 year and 6 months from now

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by BasePlateAlpha, May 30, 2020.

Do you believe is sex after marriage ?

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  1. BasePlateAlpha

    BasePlateAlpha New Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys, I'm 22 and trying to make a change in my life. I met a beautiful girl we have been dating 5 months now. But we have know each other for a bit over a year. The major objective is marriage.

    I have been in the past watching porn and manstubating, I wasn't addicted but. After seeing how this affects many people's lives I have made the decided effort to change. I really don't wanna put myself or her in any disadvantage in marriage and our sex life.

    We have never kissed, or had sex the most we do is hug. We believe that sex should be saved for marriage, it's all a biblical principle that God has in the bible.

    I'm hoping to o rewire my brain over this time, and so that our first time is truly a blessing to us. 6months from now I will make another post of my journey.
     
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  2. r8js

    r8js Fapstronaut

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    Congratulations...
     
  3. CBook

    CBook Fapstronaut

    Congratulations! Often men make the misstake of assuming that once they get married, porn will automatically disappear from their lives. From what I've seen on this forum, the case is often that the habit of porn returns after some time, when the first excitement is over, and becomes a real problem, sometimes even a threat to the relationship. I therefore encourage you with all my heart to put all your efforts into staying chaste from this point and to allow your brain to rewire as much as possible. May God bless your honourable intentions and future marriage!
     
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  4. OoMahidoO

    OoMahidoO Fapstronaut

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    Congratulations! I also believe that sex should only be fine when a couple is married, you're bible says it so you must respect it. And also Cbook is right I've seen many people who still are addicted to porn after marriage, and that leads to problems in their life. I say save sex for marriage and lead a happy married life, congrats again.
     
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