Getting picked on for NoFap. Why? Fixes?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by derivative, Nov 24, 2018.

  1. derivative

    derivative Fapstronaut

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    Dang I never realized that vegan converts get a similar treatment. Except vegans get it far more to my understanding, because talking about vegan shit does not necessarily make for as awkward of the conversation as porn and jacking off. Therefore vegans are an easy target. Hit with an insult, run away, swoop back again, gone, repeat. Stay tough!
     
  2. risk_taker

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    Haha right? Although I don't typically talk about vegan shit anymore. I've seen that blow over with too many people too many times. I end up just eating not meat, and then people end up reacting by my behaviors or bring up that I'm vegan. It's kind of like my family which seems to annoy me. They bring it up like I'm a sort of trophy but I'd rather it stay on the DL and then just me eat in peace. I don't want other people to cause a ruckus or anything.
     
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  3. derivative

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    If they could just stay low-key and not make a big deal about veganism, things would be far easier. It's kinda like dealing with a severe food allergy in a restaurant or group setting. You don't WANT the attention, but if you're gonna not die, you would have to tell people what your needs are. Perhaps borderline oxymoronic.
     
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  4. meatsandwich

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    regarding dogs, I was bitten when I was little and I have fear/hate towards dogs but mostly because of my past experience and it is something that
    forms from experiences.
     
  5. Ra's Al Ghul

    Ra's Al Ghul Fapstronaut

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    This is why I said we live in Wanker nation. People think you're weird because you don't wank and do it often. I say their standards are just bottom barrel, like most of society.
     
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  6. risk_taker

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    I mean yeah in a sense, I have to know if it's in the food. It's a give and take.
     
  7. derivative

    derivative Fapstronaut

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    Going vegan is pretty hard so I applaud you
     
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  8. risk_taker

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    Thank you, appreciate it. It takes willpower but you get used to it.
     
  9. I wouldn't. It's one thing to go around making a show of your abstainence or throw it in peoples faces for the sake of being high and mighty but based on his post, he's getting made fun of for not just going along with the crowd. Their own destructive behavior is whats making them feel bad. Should he take a hit of meth and bang a hooker with no rubber to make everyone feel comfortable? Why cant they just enjoy their porn and let the op abstain in peace?
     
  10. derivative

    derivative Fapstronaut

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    I might quote you some day
     
  11. u376

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    I completely agree with you......now there is vulgarity even in the name of comedy......
    I am from India.....and comedians here jokes too much about the wedding night.....
    It's uncomfortable sometimes specially when parents are around........
    Even advertisement are filled with this thinking.......
    As for me......I have made a rule for myself that I don't look at women's body parts except their face......this strategy has helped me........so I survive those unnecessary sexual scenes
     
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  12. u376

    u376 Fapstronaut

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    Then you should follow your instinct......
    Hard mode is difficult but more beneficial
     
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  13. Castielle

    Castielle Fapstronaut

    What does this have to do with anything?
     
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  14. Castielle

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    Amen. Dont let anyone make you feel bad for doing the right thing or what is best and healthiest for you. You shouldnt have to compromise your morals to make someone else comfortable or to not be made fun of, and if you're feeling the need to do that, then either you need to work on your own self confidence, or you need some more supportive friends. Or maybe both.
     
  15. Sarah Walker

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    I don't understand that either, even originally that "hating dogs" statement made no sense as there's zero correlation between that and what OP has said.
     
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  16. derivative

    derivative Fapstronaut

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    Good point. It might be a good idea to find a few more friends before winter break
     
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  17. derivative

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    @meatsandwich If there actually is a connection between the dog situation and the original topic of the conversation, I would interested to hear it. Please explain if there is a connection
     
  18. meatsandwich

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    I don't know, I noticed that dogs were mentioned there :D
     
  19. meatsandwich

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    Not really, but I saw there was mention regarding it and I just pointed out :D
     
  20. u376

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    I am on 340+ days without masturbation.....
    But I have watched porn a number of times in this streak.....
    But now it's been a while since I have watched it....
    And I had 7-8 wet dreams in this streak
     

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