Getting rid of a foot fetish

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by atakankurudere, Oct 17, 2020.

  1. atakankurudere

    atakankurudere Fapstronaut

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    I have a foot fetish and i cant get hard for regular sex i want to enjoy more normal sexual desires my fetish is not porn induced what do i need to do in order for that should i stop masturbating with the thought of feet or do i need to do orgasmic reconditioning to associate sexual pleasure with vanilla sex
     
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  2. DanielHanes

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    Hey,

    I also have a foot fetish. But i'm dealing with a lot more fetishes like: femdom, humiliation, forced bi and more.
    27 days ago I decided that my addiction needed to stop. Now most of my fetishes are gone. Some I'm even disgusted by by now.
    Even my foot fetish is slowly increasing. I'm not as aroused by feet as a month ago.

    The ONLY WAY to accomplish this is:
    - Quit all porn
    - Unfollow/delete all foot fetish related shit on social media
    - Stop using reddit/kik etc. for fetish purposes
    - Stop masturbating at all
    - When you think about feet, fight it aggressively in your mind

    If you need any help or have any questions, feel free to send me a message!
     
  3. IGY

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    I think that you should stop masturbating altogether. If you want to rid yourself of a foot fetish, you cannot be fantasising about feet. And masturbating to the thought of feet is working against your wishes. :eek: I agree with @DanielHanes above.
     
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  4. Supination

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    I honstely kinda disagree with both of the above ^

    You mentioned that your foot fetish is not porn induced and that's a big difference. I also have a foot fetish(since i was born) and i'm not really positive about the possibility of getting rid of a not porn induced fetish.

    I really think you should own your foot fetish like a man and learn to accept yourself. It's honestly not that bad and probably the most popular fetish out there. And seriously It's fantastic when you act on it with the right partner. I do agree that this fetish isn't healthy if it's porn induced(Like any other porn induced fetishes).

    Although I would say, That This fetish is pretty dangerous *When watching porn* because it easily leads to escalating to hardcore fetishes and porn categories such as femdom,sissy, trans etc...

    Avoid porn and masturbation at all cost in order to: Reset your dopamine levels, To get your libido level and attraction to women back, And to rewire your brain and yourself to your true nature and to a healthy sexuality.

    Good luck!
     
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  5. blunt.ever

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    Did you tried to smell a woman's feet? Maybe that's your problem, but after you'll try, the fetish will dispear.
     
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  6. DanielHanes

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    Bro, I have a foot fetish, this will only stimulate the fetish.
     
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  7. blunt.ever

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    I had foot fetish too. But I don't knew that fetish is only in my mind, induced of porno. I wanted to try this shit with a woman (a mother's friend) and was not so funny or horny. Her feet smelled so bad and I feel a disrespect total for myself when I remember. I feeling like a trash.
    that woman lives in my neighborhood, and now that I meet her I feel the need to be invisible or to put my head in the ground of shame. I can't even look her in the eye. it was an experience I never want to repeat and I recommend if you want to get rid of this job to try with a girl to convince you.
     
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  8. DanielHanes

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    The good thing is you don't have a foot fetish anymore. I think it's different for everyone I guess. I worshipped feet many times in my life and I liked it. After that my fetish got stronger and even more extreme. I agree with you that the fetish is induced by porn. I'm at day 30 of no PMO right now and I'm not so aroused by my fetishes as I used to be.
     
  9. InappropriateUsername

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    Do a reboot. You also need to explore where the fetish originated and why you associate pleasure with feet--maybe that will help.
     
  10. bened7000

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    I completely agree with what you said here. If it's not dangerous, harmful and most importantly porn induced - I think there's no reason to put much effort to get rid of it. Just focus on nofap (on any mode you prefer) and it will eventually get back to normal levels and can stay there.
     
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  11. BudBundy99

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    You said your foot fetish is likely NOT induced by porn, by my standards there's nothing wrong with a foot fetish as others have mentioned it likely is the most popular fetish out there, in my view its NOT problematic as some other fetishes can be...

    Keep doing what you're doing, don't watch porn and like if you're still attracted to feet that's generally a pretty normal and harmless fetish that you can explore in the bedroom with a partner, don't be so concerned about it
     
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  12. Daniel123p

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    Hey, i have this issue same as you, is there any way i can talk to you privately for help maybe Snapchat or call i dont mind
     
  13. Longtime27

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    I also fall into this category - it is a popular fetish and has deep rooted psychological tangents besides just simply liking the look/taste/smell of feet. I have just relapsed and tried as I might, I keep reverting back to the same old videos.

    The truth is it you can contain it to just real life interaction with a partner who enjoys this and can nuture your sexual/sensual tastes, it isn't a problem. However lack of that will lead you back to porn as the substitute, and porn isn't real!

    Happy to chat privately with anyone about this as (until tonight) I had done really well to alter my perception towards feet/foot fetish.

    The battle continues, good luck to all
     
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  14. blunt.ever

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    I had the choice to try it, but I didn't of shame.
    Once, a girl asked me if I had a foot fetish, but I was ashamed to admit, I told her no. Then she told me it was normal, that she had a friend who was licking her feet all the time, and that I had nothing to be ashamed of, but I told her no. Plus I didn't even know her very well, it was the second time I saw her and I was afraid she wouldn't find out from other colleagues in college.
     
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  15. Anakin66

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    Do you mind sharing how you know it's not porn induced?

    I developed a foot fetish from porn as a young teen, but didn't realize until I was an adult having sex. It's like inception. The fetish is planted and you don't even know it.

    On that note, your entire mind set about sex needs an overhaul if you wanna dump this fetish. The so called Vanilla sex can be quite intense once you rid your mind of the pornographic garbage consumed. And yes, quit masturbation while your at it, because you'll just keep feeding the fetish as you pointed out. Good luck!
     
  16. iwanttoheal

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    I had foot fetish as a kid lol. Don’t know how I got over it.

    Nothing wrong with liking feet brah. As long as your partner is okay with it. Hopefully you find one whos into the idea you like feet.
     
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