Getting rid of anal masturbation

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Freedom_from_PMO, Apr 21, 2019.

  1. Freedom_from_PMO

    Freedom_from_PMO Fapstronaut

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    I am a straight guy and I have regular anal penetration cravings. They happen less often than desire to stimulate my penis. Long story short I heard about prostate massage, I failed, then I saw long piece of extremely fetishistic porn (furry, gender transformation, animal transformation, submission and gay anal). This ignited my anal cravings. I developed anal masturbation habit and after some time I was achieving anal pleasure every time. My long gone crossdressing fetish reappeared recently. I was also into feminization and animal tf hypno. This all together is negatively impacting my sexuallity, I had desires to be pegged in girly clothing and recently I had for first time thoughts of bottoming in gay sex. I am on day 6 PMO mode. I want to reverse sissification and stop anal desires.
     
  2. A lot of straight guys take an advantage from some anal plays - it is nothing wrong with it, so you do not need to be afraid or ashamed of it. Nevertheless, I am sure that you need to reconsider your desires and needs. Full 90 day reboot is the first and probably the most important step to achieve it.
     
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  3. Freedom_from_PMO

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    This is enforcing my sissification, so I am not happy with that.
     
  4. ultrafabber

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    Yes it is. It's also not a straight act.
     
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  5. Freedom_from_PMO

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    Guys, my problem is not discussion if there are advantages of it, is this straight or not. For me anal masturbation is closely tied to escalation of my other fetishes and I do not want to escalate further. I have innate animal tf/furry fetish, but all attempts to make some compromise with a fetish were always ending with escalation. So now I am trying to abstain from fetishes.
     
  6. iLoveRain

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    Get well soon. You are highly damaged from what i see. Take your recovery as seriously as you can.
     
  7. Freedom_from_PMO

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    Thanks fam. I am for the first time that determined. I was for years afraid and disgusted with my fetishes, so I was scared to introspect. Now I am better, but few last months were really worse and I had lots of escalation. The good thing is that I am finally succesfully abstaining from PMO and I am most aware of my problems. I was ignoring it for too long.
     
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  8. I can't see anything wrong in it. Some heterosexual couples explore such stuff and I think it is okay and it is not gay.
     
  9. bfdet

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    Hi 'Freedom (and others) !

    If an activity / action is creating problems for your - and it probably is creating problems if you think it is - then it would be very good to stop that activity. While everybody is different, a 90 day hard-mode reboot is perhaps the most likely to help with most people, but of course, your experience may be different.

    Why not try a 90 day hard mode reboot ? For sure, it won't hurt you and based on the experiences of many here (me too...) a 90 day or longer hard-mode reboot really does work to help our healing.

    I encourage you to start now. You can find helpful information in the "getting started guide" which you can find on the home page of this (noFAP) home page.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
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  10. topilabv

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    Abstain from porn and any sort of masturbation and orgasms and stop feeding the monster. Whenever you have such cravings don't feed them or fight them, just let them stay and pass. You damaged your brain really hard. The road will be really long - could take years, everybody is different but I think that you can heal! Good luck brother
     
  11. FlexorCarpiUlnaris

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    I can relate to this behavior. If you don’t give in to it, it will eventually fade away.

    Trust the process and become the strongest version of yourself.
     
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  12. Bigftninja

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    Lets give this guy a shout out. After starting this thread he was at 6 days No PMO he has reached 14 days. Good job and best of luck. Whatever you are doing to stop fapping keep it up bro.
     
  13. Freedom_from_PMO

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    Guys, all those wierd desires are gone. I still feel urge to reset from time to time, but it is easy to control.
     
  14. So plastic penis in your anal is not gay? Good joke. Its a penis. In your anal. Its gay.
     
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  15. Good. I dont believe its easy and I dont believe its all done. We speak of easy after few more months. Good luck.
     
  16. Freedom_from_PMO

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    This is more complicated, both heterosexual and gay men might have sensitive prostate and enjoy anal. However because of obvious reasons this is not how you naturally have sex with a woman and this is very common if you are gay. For porn addict twisted mind this is often gateway drug to gay sex.
     
  17. Freedom_from_PMO

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    I don't want to defend this practice very much, this is messy, might ignite desire for gay experiments, I don't know if this a practice that both parties enjoy and yeah, there is certain "gayness" about it.
     
  18. My ideas about this kind of stimulation are gone. This is my 2nd year if NoFap. I enjoy woman licking me there. No penis included. Just a woman. Not gay.
     
  19. Anal pleasure is natural thing it's there for everyone even you, if straight couples are not afraid to use it doesn't make them gay. Gay people can do stuff that doesn't involve the penis or holes. Gay is when men are attracted to men and that's just it. However I don't think couples or men should do this unless they are gay because you don't need it and if you do need it then you have an addiction, it's more extreme and you should not need to have extreme types of sex to get off.
     
  20. Lesbians have sex with strap-ons but they are not straight ? You wank yourself off but you are not gay?
     
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