Getting shit from buddies because I like bigger girls...

it's ok as long as it's not some kind of eating disorder-related fetish imo

 

You recognize there could be a medical problem in the first quote, but still treat obesity like a universally moral failing. There's some fair points in here. If she's fat because she has a bad relationship to food and/or doesn't respect herself, that's a problem. If she has a bad thyroid, though, that's a different issue.

I'm not perfect, so I'm not expecting her to be perfect either. Doesn't mean I have no standards, just that I'm willing to compromise and see a person as more than their body. If @brassknucks has a preference, especially based on previous experience, why denigrate?

 

Oy vey. With bigger bigger girls your wallet will go dry pronto from all the big macs you’ll be buying.

 

>posts on the nofap forum about getting shit from friends about something
>gets shit from people on the nofap forum abut that thing

 

Some of the comments here made me laugh, but at the same time they're very offending. Like @Fallacious D said; you're not helping @brassknucks at all.

I'm into skinny girls, and that's actually more unfortunate than being attracted to big girls. I think the majority would go for a slim girl, rather than a big girl. Especially in the western society. So we have all a LOT more competition from other men. Also, all this attention towards slim girls make them more arrogant and choosy, which makes it even tougher.

I think it's true that bigger girls are generally 'easier' to get because of this, because of the shame that's brought down on them, and in turn causes lowered confidence, which might make them more needy and easier to 'get'.

Anyway, what I'm saying is, if bigger girls are 'less in demand', then you've got a clear advantage here. Go for it.

 

wtf man I get the logic but wtf

 

Obesity during pregnancy increases the risk for premature delivery, premature delivery increases the risk of the baby to have early death, cognitive deficiencies, infections.
Also is a big risk for spontaneous abortion.

Obesity increases the risk of hypertensive pregnancy, developing gestational diabetes mellitus, increases the risk of the baby to born overweight or underweight and with diabetes mellitus, increases the risk of pre eclampsia, the women to develop seizures during labor, hypothyroidism, I could keep going for very long. Obesity it's an extremely high risk pregnancy, obesity is one of the major causes of pregnancy complications and of chronic diseases around the world.

But if you like the mother of your children fat, well that's up to you.

I'm a physician so I'm not making this up. I have treated many fat women in their pregnancies and labor.

 

wasn't the dude just talking about some sexual preference?

 

@greenishmoon you quoted this specific text of what I said and your reply was simply a "WTF" I interpreted this like what I was saying was crazy. So you are saying why I talk about this if we are talking about an attraction/sexual preference?

Well generally fat women are not generally view as attractive and one of the reasons is because they are not good for making children, we like women in general who have big breasts and small waist because it means she can be good at breastfeeding, small waist can indicate fertility also a healthy weight means she has healthy genes for children to be of good weight, you han inherit weight predisposition as well.

I said it trying to explain why @brassknucks friends can make fun of him, there's is a subconscious collective desire for physical traits that involves a woman is good for procreation.

So that is why I said it, I thought it was self explanatory and your "WTF" it looks like an overreaction to a very normal healthy physiological view of attraction.

And sex can very easily lead to pregnancy by the way, that is how it happens.

 

To quote Joe Pesci in With Honors: "...women are perfect. Don't matter if they're skinny, fat, blond or blue."

 

There is much to say.

First, "buddies" are overrated.

Your friends won't make fun of you for anything, if you're all grownups and not still a bunch of kids, or frat boys, or chowderheads, or all of the above.

I don't have anyone in my life who makes a peep about the fact that I love women upwards of 200 pounds. I think they get it because my ex-wife was an opera singer. Big, gorgeous redhead, ripe as a tomato, great to hug, great to sleep with. My love.

My last real girlfriend was a SSBBW. Google it, you will find thousands and thousands of videos and images. You're not alone. That's my type, that's the end of that, case closed. I'm now dating, with the intent of getting married again. I will marry a plump princess and spend the rest of my life with her, this much I know. She will be smart, funny, kind, compassionate, will think I am the cat's pajamas, and when she gets in the bed, the springs will groan!

People can drop the "It's bad for your health!" thing. As if you'll say "Oh! I didn't know that! Ok, that's it, no more big girls for me!"

One might say rubbing your penis 8 times a day to pornography is also bad for your health. From these people, you seek advice? No offense to anyone reading.

If I were you, I would go hang out at sites where men who love big women gather, and the women who like those men also gather. PM me and I'll throw you some.

As to those who have a problem with your preference, fuck 'em. Then fuck 'em again and again. You might have to say this out loud, and you might have to say it more than once. I have a big mouth and I use it when necessary. But usually it doesn't go that far.

Grow some teeth.

 

Damn bro dont like fat woman ....their fat.... fat not healthy

 

Thing is, how fat are we talking? Curvy? Junk in the trunk? Belly rolls & love handles? Or are we talking "buy an extra airplane ticket," or maybe "can't fit in the ambulance, which is a problem because she's under cardiac arrest" fat? And when we say we like skinny girls, are we saying toned? Fit? Slim? Visible ribs? Visible clavicles? Can you count her vertebrae through her shirt? Because "healthy" is a relative term, and cuts both ways. I've seen "fat" girls who can out perform 90% of the guys in the gym, and skinny girls about to die of organ failure 'cause they couldn't be arsed to eat a sammich

 

Girls with curves arent fat, are quite pretty and hot, very skinny woman are also quite ugly in my opinion same as the fat girls, fat for we is having a big belly and too much chubby, but a woman who has some curves is more hot than a woman that looks like a skeleton

 

So there's a range. You like a certain range, he likes a certain range, maybe they overlap a bit maybe not, but it's all good. We don't have to like the same things. More for him, more for you, more for me.