GIRL or a JOB ??

I meant be a lover.

 

Boycotting porn will free up time. Time is what we all need and Nofap should be a big help in recovering time. We all struggle with how to balance life, figure out your priorities and devote your time accordingly. As I said spend most of your time finding a job, everyday between 8:00 AM - 5:00 PM look for a job. After 5:00 PM spend your time looking for a girl and doing the other things in your life that are important to you.
Good luck, you can do it!

 

"First you get the money, then you get the power...then you get the weeemen"

-Scarface

 

You should focus on yourself.
Of course, you should get a job, but don't make it the center of your life.
You are single, and if you have a steady job, you will have time to develop yourself.
Having free time and no constraints is one of the most valuable things on earth.
Then spend your free time hanging around with some cool friends (people you admire), learn thing, (you can discover much on The Art of Charm podcast), and while doing this, you'll get good at your job, and you'll meet great ladies. Do unexpected things, like hiking alone in the wild for weeks, travel around the world.

But please, if you have free time, don't waste it watching stuff while sitting at your desk.
Life can bring you much more than that.
Be the one making the videos on youtube, not the one watching them...

 

Bros, I'm about to move and get a real job, but I haven't even wanted or tried to date since high school. I'm just glad I've got my head straight and gonna get paid.

 

Both.

I remember reading this thing where this guy asked this successful entrepreneur advice for someone who wanted to get into entrepreneurship.

His advice was 'Get a girlfriend. Get a job'.

Do something every day towards getting both.

 

Both. They like guys with good jobs too.

 

Why not broaden your horizons and try both? It's good that you are focusing on career and financial stability, but you have to have fun too. Take stock of things you like to do and look for women that way. Also, don't be afraid to be yourself. We all have quirks and that's what makes us interesting.

 

@AVRA :
Living with a girl/engaging with a girl has nothing to do with your carrier and job.you can engage with both if you really want to.sometimes we complicate life unnecessarily.girl is also imp at some stage of life as a carrier.for instance if one has everything but a life partner then also s/he will feel an emptiness in life and same happens for if girl is there but not a good carrier.so one must not get struck up at wrong notion, both are imp.if you can manage well then a person can really impact in overall imorovement of your life ,youll get a friend,a partner and life becomes easy and you may feel satisfied.you should see these things as per your age and priority.but you can manage your life well with both simultaneously.its best to have both.
Good luck!

 

I would say to focus on your career. Women always come later.

 

YOU ONLY GET ONE LIFE. Don't let a job drain you of your energy. If youre the entrepeneur type just GO FOR IT! Follow your HEART! View motivational things from Real Social Dynamics and Sacha Daygame.

 

The question is like asking food or water?

You need both. But you need to understand money.

Relationships include mortages, children, credit cards and intermingling of two people's money. If one party is not pulling their own monetary weight, it can lead to resentment.

Most couples break up over finacial issues over any other issue.

Pressure from debt and debt collectors is also a major contributor to male impotence.