Girlfriend made fun of penis size - Can't get over it

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Focused, Dec 24, 2017.

  1. Toomuchh

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    Sorry I don't understand why there is an issue then, what is it you are asking? It sounds like she made some comments about your size and it made you insecure. Why does it make you insecure?
     
  2. Focused

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    Exactly!

    Because the girl I love and have been together with for almost 3 years made comments about it being small.

    That means she's been with at least a handful of way bigger guys. Now, most girls probably have had a bigger one before.. but, yeah I don't know. I think the number 23 is a factor in this too.

    She's been with 23 before me > She says my dick is average/small > Insecure

    Let me add this: My penis is 7 inch erect, according to her that's average or small. What kind of dicks has she had before if she believes 7 is average? I don't want to know, it makes me sick.
     
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  3. You know I was thinking about this. I'll be honest there's certain type of breasts I don't like but if my girlfriend had such breasts I wouldn't say anything, in fact I would make myself love them because I love her and their her breasts. I would say anyone who makes negative comments about their partners body doesn't really love them (whether it's a man or a woman).
     
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  4. David stone

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    I only said something about her but now let me say some about you 7 inch guy. I think you are a fuking wimp and you get what u deserve. You are fuking insecure and you make lot of guys feel bad for you, because 7 inch is big. And btw if ur woman sais she s been with 23 before you.....she probably been ith 70 in reality , so what?
     
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  5. Physicist

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    Break up, there is no going back to this.
     
  6. Focused

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    Let me try and understand what you just said.

    I'm a wimp and get what I deserve because I'm making people feel bad for me, because 7 inch is big? What? I literally have no idea what you're trying to say.

    Okay so if it's 70, that means she's lying. Then I'll break up, pretty easy. I don't understand what you're asking, at all.
     
  7. anewhope

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    I wouldn't pay too much attention to him. He's clearly got some major issues of his own. (Anger management, spelling for example). Merry Christmas @Focused and good luck with resolving this issue with your girlfriend in a mature, adult way.

    ANH
     
  8. Focused

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    Yeah I figured!

    Merry Christmas @anewhope , thanks for all your helpful and mature posts. Have a great holiday! :)
     
  9. Spiritus Maurusia

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    I am sorry man - maybe you are too young - but in my view only a pussyfied "man" can be with such a slutty and direspectful woman, (except for having a ONS). You need to learn self esteem and a sense of honor.
     
  10. Nomar

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    Sounds like your girlfriend is toxic and so is your “relationship”. She is an asshole. Also why would you even want to be with someone who’s fucked 23 guys?? Thats sex addict numbers right there.
     
  11. Toomuchh

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    Iunno man it sounds like she learned her lesson if what you said is true, people aren't perfect and they make mistakes. It's up to you to make a decision if its big enough a deal for you to break up. It seems like you have communicated that its not okay and she understands that now. But you still feel insecure.
     
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  12. 7 inches is above average. She is playing humiliation games with you! GET OUTTA THERE!
     
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  13. Focused

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    Well, when we met I never asked about the past because I figured it's better not to know. However she asked me, I answered, but she wouldn't say her number.. Months went by and I got more and more curious and then finally she told me. I asked more and more, specially since she was saying my dick's small/average when it's 7" (17-18cm).

    One of my main 'qualities' I look for in a woman when I enter a relationship is just that, a low numbered sexual past.. My ex had 2 previous before me, and my other ex was a virgin.

    Anyway, an UPDATE.

    We talked about it, and I figured it's best if I just ask everything I am wondering to get it out there. I asked what she would say average is in her experience, and she said 14-17cm, and the biggest one was 18cm.... I am 17-18cm, and I was "small/average"? I seriously doubt they were all within the span of average. But of course she will lie now, knowing how much all of this bothers me.

    My ex who had 2 previous partners had a completely different experience, with the first dick being under 10cm, mine 17, and the other one huge like a pornstars (yes, really). This is why I see it as highly unlikely that 23 dudes had between 14-18cm. AT LEAST one of them would definitely have had a monster.

    Hm..
     
  14. BraveBear

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    Hey. This is MORE ABOUT HER than it is about you. If she is mean spirited and she has to say something about your dick...seriously, she's not the kind of person who respects you or herself. Dick size is not what this is even about. This is about self-respect. She doesn't have it, so she has to tear other people down...and if you fall into that, she wins.

    Why are you even talking with her about this? Why are you GIVING HER ANY POWER OVER YOUR SELF WORTH??

    Dude, I'm only 5 inches, hard and the one girlfriend I had was FINE with it...because we loved eachother and respected eachother.
     
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  15. BraveBear

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    I agree.
     
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  16. your a fucking idiot, you need some tony robbins shit and need to grow up, eww she said that, eww that happend, what fucking matters is what you think, you need to accept your self, omgg, bro everything is mindset okay 80 precent is mindset and 20precent is doing it, okay , so you blame it on your gf, NO be a fucking man and blame it on yourself, okay sorry that I gone hard on you, but your mindset is complete shit, be like Tupac ya know, just don't give a fuck
     
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  17. and she being drunk damn, honestly show her the example, ya feel me, when she says ya have a little dick you could have said and you drunk as fuck , see , it ain't that hard lol, its just bullcrap, it's all just talking......, you can choose to play the game, it's just saying bullshit
     
  18. SanityOverVanity

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  19. Focused

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    Yea that's true. It was just to push me down for her own insecurities. I can't help to fall into it, unfortunately. Hence the thread.

    I was talking to her about it to try and move on, instead of letting it bubble inside me. I was actually really happy with my member before, until those comments.


    Yo yooo dawg.

    Yes, what matters is what I think, and now I think my dick is small. I completely agree that it's mindset, and that's the problem. I also agree with the whole "who gives a shit what people think", but the dick man, damn. Anything else would've been fine. Not sure how I'm gonna blame it on myself? Do you mean blame myself for my penis size? Very unclear what you're saying. Or maybe you're saying to just get over it since there's nothing to do, and I guess you're right.

    What am I blaming on my GF, except making me insecure in this particular "field"? I'm really confused by what you're saying. Of course it's all up to me and my mindset, but it's easier said than done to just be like "FUCK IT BRUH" and it's all good again.

    On an unrelated note, here's the best tupac song:

    Yea I see what you're saying. I'll say it again though: She could have said ANYTHING and I couldn't have cared less, EXCEPT the dick. I can't help it, it's stuck with me.

    But I guess we can let the thread die now, since the answer is quite simple: Get over it or don't.
     
  20. if you believe 7inch is small your an dumbass, you think you need brainwashed pornstar dicks to survive, who is more brainwashed you or you gf, bro you gotta be like, when she was sucking she she stood still, she couldn't survive, you gotta be like fuck porn , I got the biggest dick, when you doubt yourself your fucked,, also tnx for that song , I actually never listened to it :)
     
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