Girlfriend's non sexual photos, a question

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by jdilla97, Sep 15, 2016.

  1. jdilla97

    jdilla97 Fapstronaut

    69
    88
    18
    Hey everyone! I have a question...
    My girlfriend from time to time sends me pictures of her face (nothing more). How do you think,it should be avoided during the reboot?
     
  2. Owari

    Owari Fapstronaut

    281
    326
    63
    You could try and ask her to not send photos of her face to you. If she asks why I'd recommend actually telling her (because hiding this issue is only destructive, take it from me). If you really don't want to (I'd recommend telling) just say something like "because I want to wait until I see you to see your amazing face" or something ;)
     
    MsPants and jdilla97 like this.
  3. jdilla97

    jdilla97 Fapstronaut

    69
    88
    18
    She knows about my addiction:)
    I just wondering, how it is "bad" for brain and recovery
     
    Owari likes this.
  4. Owari

    Owari Fapstronaut

    281
    326
    63
    Ohh I see. Well it depends on you personally. Does looking at her face cause you to fantasize? If not, then perhaps it would be okay (unless you want to be 100%). If it causes you to think sexually and fantasize then it's a big no-no and should most likely be avoided in your reboot.

    Also it's good that she knows! ;) :)
     
  5. jdilla97

    jdilla97 Fapstronaut

    69
    88
    18
    I'm not fantasizing, maybe sometimes, but not due to pictures, and I overcome them asap
    In the past, i can switch between multiple photos for hours, it was dull, now I do not have this habit. And I don't have any "storage" for pics now :)) Anyway, it will be better for me... Only real "watching"
    Thank You!
    Im still waiting for replies
     
    Owari likes this.
  6. jatar

    jatar Fapstronaut

    515
    128
    43
    Do you get a rush looking at her pictures similar the one you get from looking at porn or porn subs (girls in bikini, etc.)? If yes, it's not good for your reboot. If not, don't worry about it :).
     
    Owari, Dizzy Lotus and jdilla97 like this.
  7. starchildnova

    starchildnova Fapstronaut

    35
    39
    18
    As Jatar said, as long as it isn't giving you the same feeling as PSubs are, then you're 100% in the clear! Might I ask how long you two have been together? Because if you two are very committed and have been together for a good while, then there's a strong chance you love each other dearly, and in that situation, you shouldn't avoid her face! Do the images brighten your day? Does her smile make you smile? In which case, it's a great thing to have around during a reboot. Love and support always keep me going in tough times.
     
  8. Jilloy

    Jilloy Guest

    If you can´t look at a girl's face or fully clothed body without getting a rush, rebooting may be hard.
     
    Owari and jdilla97 like this.
  9. Purps

    Purps Guest

    I mean she is your girlfriend would be weird to turn down her pictures down.

    Dn't you two see each other often enough or what is the reason for sending face pictures?
     
    jdilla97 likes this.
  10. jdilla97

    jdilla97 Fapstronaut

    69
    88
    18
    We're from different cities, You know
     
  11. jdilla97

    jdilla97 Fapstronaut

    69
    88
    18
    For a long time not seen her (since June, she comes in October), i miss her.
    It is not a type of rush, im sure :) nice butterflies in stomach - that's it.
    We started dating around a year ago
     
    Owari, Dizzy Lotus and Jilloy like this.
  12. Don Joe

    Don Joe Fapstronaut

    35
    19
    8
    Have you ever MO to her pictures? Or even just M?

    Nice username btw, classic hip hop head?
     
    jdilla97 likes this.
  13. jdilla97

    jdilla97 Fapstronaut

    69
    88
    18
    In the past - yes... but just few times, and that was before I started reboot. It took me a lot of time to reach O, everytime. When i switch on P - one minute... Of course i know why :)
    Otherwise, then she sent me a provocative pictures, we did not know yet about my PIED

    Yes Don Joe - i love oldschool soulful stuff, Dilla is my big influence in making beats :)
     
    Last edited: Sep 17, 2016
    Owari likes this.

Share This Page