Girls I see outside are turning me on help !!!!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Islanders190, Mar 22, 2016.

  1. Islanders190

    Islanders190 Fapstronaut

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    so today in class this cute girl wore jeans that had rips on them. Only both knees were showing and I got so turned on. I really wanted to just wip it out there and masterbate or run to the college bathroom and fap but I didn't. Should I just try to a avoid looking at girls all together to prevent temptation and relapse ? Cause as the weather is getting warmer on the east coast less and less clothes will be coming off any advice would be greatly appreciated
     
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  2. DalyStrgle

    DalyStrgle Fapstronaut

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    stay strong even in the temptation. You will be surrounded by it soon on the east coast as they have been covered up all winter and they are ready to bring out the cute clothes. Try meditation or music or whatever you can to stay strong and focused on recovering.
     
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  3. avatarivn

    avatarivn Fapstronaut

    Well, look at the bright side : you are getting interested in real woman (even if its only on a lustful way). Give yourself some more time and you will start to get interested in knowing women as a whole person and not just as hot bodies.
     
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  4. Islanders190

    Islanders190 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man I didn't look at it that way it does help. I noticed your current streak is 4 and best is 38 what had caused the relapse ?
     
  5. avatarivn

    avatarivn Fapstronaut

    Long story short, I am not giving NoFap my all, as in I am still consider pornography and masturbation as activities to do when I am stressed or bored. I should not do that (obviously) but that how my latest relapses have come to bite me in the @$$
     
  6. The Help Man

    The Help Man Fapstronaut

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    This is natural. If you look to them ِ, your desire for sex will increase.
    You dont have to look at hot girls.
    If you do that, you will burn yourself from the inside.
    IMO This is WRONG.
     
  7. kk76

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    I try to avoid any sort of looking and flirting. It does me no good. However I am not a saint.

    Maybe... Remember they are still a person with thoughts and feelings. If you were them would you feel scared and intimidated by guys looking at you. Place yourself in their shoes.
     
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  8. Landomike

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    Try to look away from them. It takes some serious willpower but harder things have been done by men in the past.
     
  9. kk76

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    The above is about the best advice. How is it helping. I'm hungry but I don't want to look at pictures of food, read recipes or watch Food Network on TV
     
  10. Buzz Lightyear

    Buzz Lightyear Fapstronaut

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    Nothing wrong with appreciating a woman's beauty. But you want to be drawn in and start a conversation. You then appreciate her more for the real person she is, and not that imagined 'hottie'... which evaporates. You notice that she isn't quite that 'hot' but kind of normal, with all of her own insecurities. And then the attraction comes if she shines in conversation.
     
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  11. admste

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    @Islanders190 there is nothing wrong with being interested in women even in a sexual way..thats how you feel and it may not be simply because you were watching porn or masturbating. It may simply be because you desire for more sex than others..this is normal..what would not be normal is you masturbating at the IDEA of sex with that girl..do it with a girl mate not yourself..make that a rule if possible..above posts are right..respect a women for her beauty and dont be drawn into masturbation. Work hard to be with that girl if you really want her.
     
  12. I have the same problem, driving or in coffee shops, however there is this technique that I've learnt and it's called the 3 second rule, alow your self 3 seconds and then that's it, try to remember it's rude to stare and very childlike, grow up and become a real man and that will give you more attention, P. S good luck my friend.
     
  13. diamondboi

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    This is normal. Embrace it.

    All I recommend is you don't aggressively fantasize about unrealistic situations. Just appreciate their beauty, and empower yourself knowing that your cock is responding to a beautiful women. After that, just ride it out. 'X' your mind

    That healthy libido, and sex drive is starting to come back. When I did my first course of NOFAP I started experiencing this daily on my commute to work on the bus around 31 days in.


    feels awesome just popping all sorts of wood.
     

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