Girls in yoga pants triggers porn use.

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Shy_1990, Apr 2, 2019.

  1. Shy_1990

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    Ok so this sounds horrible but I have a problem with seeing women in tight fitting clothes. I go to university and a lot of women walk around in yoga pants/leggins/tights that are really form fitting.

    Theres some sort of weird addiction going on in my head with it and I need it to stop. I never considered myself a creepy guy which is why this bothers me so much. Basically i dont get horny because ive ruined myself with a porn addiction. But at the same time, the clothing acts as a trigger that then sets off the urge to go and watch porn.

    When something so normal as womens clothes can be a trigger how can I get through this. I cant just not go to uni.
    Any advice anyone?
    Im only on day 3 of recovery but this is by far my biggest struggle at the moment.
     
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  2. Focus a bit higher....nope a bit higher, there you go, bring your focus up to look people in the eye so you see them as a person.
    I know the world is full of triggers and does not help us in our journey so we have to train and heal ourselves, finding ways to get through this.
    You can do this.
     
  3. TimeToQuitNow

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    Yea these clothes can be very triggering. I bet they've got every person on this website to slip at least once.

    But at the end of the day these women are not going to stop dressing like that. So it is your job to turn your gaze away from them and focus on your goals. You got this!
     
  4. I know what you mean man. They’re the death of me. Look up. Look at the sky if you have to.
     
  5. Those damn yoga pants...yeah, in the same boat my friend.
     
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  6. Triggers me everytime, definitely led to a few relapses.
     
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  7. Shy_1990

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    Tha
    Thanks for your advice, im glad im not the only one
     
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  8. Shy_1990

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    I had to fight really hard to prevent a relapse from one at gym just before.
    I just want to be normal again
     
  9. Aslou

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    Same boat here, but (sorry for that) It makes me want to fuck them not to PMO.

    The worse for me it's wet effect legging and leather thight pants : (

    Well, I think we must fight for it but we don't have a problem either, that is some very sexy clothe, everybody have to admit. Even normal guys are attracted
     
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  10. Shy_1990

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    My body is so ruined that I couldnt have sex even if I wanted to. Thats why I see them and revert to weird porn.
     
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  11. Aslou

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    Sorry to hear that dude, that is weird because day 3 without PMO you begin to regain some sex drive.

    But well I guess we are all different. Or maybe your body is ruined by a disease or something like that but not just PMO if it's that i wish you good recovery, byt the way good recovery too if its because PMO aswell
     
  12. Shy_1990

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    I think I will be fine. I had a huge pmo binge on the weekend and with the right stimulus everything works fine. I really just think I need to retrain my body. Im a generally healthy guy apart from my bad habbit
     
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  13. electrons

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    Why are you so cruel to me ??? You words are triggers to me as well! Now all kinds of pictures of girls wearing tight jeans flow into my head. I can't stand it anymore!!!!!!!!!!!YOu should WRITE AN ALERT NOTE!
     
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  14. CORAZZON

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    Yeah this has gotten to me more time than I can count. Even to the point where I go look up yoga pants porn or gym porn.

    Seeing attractive girls in general is just a huge trigger for a lot of us I think, and when we see something like yoga pants our minds are going crazy to see what's underneath.

    I still struggle but one thing that helps me is telling myself "I dont need to look at her" or other types of affirmations. Reassuring your brain with your own words is powerful, even if it seems silly at first.
     
  15. CORAZZON

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    You should control yourself, bro. He's asking for help.
     
  16. GigglingTrout

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    I don't see it very often in Korea or China, outside of a gym or yoga studio. Every once in a while, but I think those girls could either be on the way to or from a yoga class. It's thankfully not as big of a trend in the Asian countries I've been to.

    Still, it's definitely a trigger for me as well, so I share your pain...
    Gotta train yourself to avert your eyes, and look at anything else in your surroundings
     
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  17. I've been flirting with a woman where I work who wears leggings/yoga pants daily. We are hot for eachother, but I can't do anything because I'm married with child. My wife needs to start wearing them.
     
  18. Dan9876

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    It’s just another trigger my friend. People have different triggers. Women in skirt is a trigger for me.

    Trust me, once you’re up and running in your NoFap or not using porn journey, they’ll start to become less appealing to you. Good luck.
     
  19. Aslou

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    Thanks for your post, well I didn't nofap more than a week or so and when I do my sex drive just sky rocket. I am curious to see why at around a month and 2month it will no be the same, I feel like my body is going crazy with hard on very often with each trigger or bad thought
     
  20. Shy_1990

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    I study exercise science at university so a lot of the girls just stay in workout clothes all day. It makes it hard
     

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