Girls in yoga pants triggers porn use.

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Shy_1990, Apr 2, 2019.

  1. IGY

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    He is not to blame for your reaction. The title contains the words "triggers porn use". What else do you want him to say?
     
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  2. Rick Seng

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    Haha I feel the same, yoga pants, tight jeans and leather pants. All of my girl-friends at the university wear them and I go crazyy all the time lol.
    Anyways thats ok bro!! dont be bothered by it, guys are meant to be excited by female body curves, there is no harm in getting hard seeing it.
    Just dont go home and fap thinking about it or search porn related to that. Though I have done it numerous times before, but I can promise you will only feel depressed and irritated about it after u fap. No fun in that. So look away from those hot chicks till u get healthy sexual life.
     
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  3. HugoBoss

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    Did you ever try to have a conversation with one of those girls?
    it might really help and it'll also make you feel better.
     
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  4. Shy_1990

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    Yea. In my journal in the 25-29yr old section I wrote about it. I tried yesterday with a girl I chat to at uni sometimes. I tried to look her in the eye and not look at her ass and actually listen to her instead of mentally groping her.
    Anyway, long story short she has a bf but on the weekend my girlfriend and I are going hiking with her and her boyfriend.
    Its amazing how a small effort can already make a difference to my social life.
     
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  5. johndoe117

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    Hey man! You're not broken! You're supposed to be triggered by yoga pants, that's a healthy and great thing. If you see a girl you think looks hot, angle your body facing away from her but turn your head and look for eye contact. Once you make eye contact, you can smile like the sexy devil you are and approach her with your best pick up line.

    Having sexual thoughts and urges for real women is good and healthy, and you shouldn't have negative feelings about it. Approach her instead of settling for porn.
     
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  6. Shy_1990

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    Thanks for the support man.
    Ive got a girlfriend and she is way out of my league. Thats why im so messed up. Ive got a beautiful athletic german girl (im australian) who I cant even get an erection for no matter how hard she tries. All because i jerk off 4-8 times per day to less beautiful women in weird porn.
    I cant get horny for real women yet but they do trigger me to go and watch porn.
     
  7. johndoe117

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    Damn that is tough man, I guess I was just projecting the advice I would want to hear. As to the erection thing, I suggest going to Roman.com or your doctor, but roman is cheap and getting a pill for it. I've used it, and it gets you erect regardless of sexual arousal, but it's a cycle and makes you more aroused and increases your confidence. Honestly I think there should be no shame in it.
     
  8. HugoBoss

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    I'm glad to hear that!
    I don't know how about you but, whenever I talk to a girl, look at her eyes and see the smile on her face my heart just melts (I can be sensitive like **** some times)
     
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  9. Shy_1990

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    Thats a nice thing to say.
    To be honest my mind is a bit sick. I used to be a really nice guy and I still am in many ways. But if i see a girl in yoga pants or a bikini or anything else that shows a figure my mind goes into some nasty places and I dont want to be like that anymore.
     
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  10. Rairah90

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    Bro, u have no choice but to lower your gaze. Keeping your eyes up and looking everywhere always keeps your pants hot.
     
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    I sympathise guys. Below is a short story from a day at university.

    At the end of my class there was a bit of extra info going around, and only a few people stayed behind to tune in. Most of them were girls. I stayed also, primarily because I wanted the info for my next assignment. However, after going over a bit of the info I decided to practice my conversation skills (you never stop learning here), and after a while ended up talking to a few of them - sharing ideas and a few jokes.

    After that, I walked back through the campus to my car. But as I walked, and inevitably walked behind cute girls wearing whatever is fashionable right now, I realised that the social interactions I just had, the smiles and jokes shared, the genuine mutual appreciation for knowledge and understanding - this was all a lot more special than the view in front of me.

    TL/DR: There's always going to be attractive girls, everywhere. Don't let the voyeurism become a replacement for natural conversation, natural relationships, and yes, eventually natural sex.
     
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    Yeah, I know what you're talking about, I'm also a student and I'm going through the same thing..
    I don't think there's too much we can do about it.. Just pretend that the urges doesn't exist and eventually they will fade away
     
  13. Shy_1990

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    Guys im so pissed off with myself.
    I went to gym today and there was a very fit woman in yoga pants that left nothing to the imagination.
    It broke me
    10min later I was rubbing one out in the toilet (luckily i cant use porn because my girlfriend installed blocking software on my phone and pc). Im so angry at myself now. I was on a 5 day streak and I ruined it in a nasty creepy way.
     
  14. CORAZZON

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    That's unfortunate. Don't beat yourself about it though. You've got to acknowledge that there will be attractive women everywhere you go in the world. Try to learn to channel that sexual energy into something productive.

    Next time you get in that situation, take a step outside the gym, not in the restroom. Look at the sky, look at your surroundings, breathe, think about the things you see, and dont let your mind wonder back to that girl you saw. When you take a few moments, go back in the gym and focus on what you went there to do, which is better yourself and improve your strength.
     
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    Every relapse is a lesson. I would encourage you to ask yourself, what exactly was the reason/s for the slip up?

    Hint: The answer isn't "I saw a girl that was too attractive".

    It's something internal with our world view. Ask yourself, what emotions do attractive girls dressed this way create for you?
     
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    First: I apologize my bad english

    Second: Man you are not creepy. I think every young healthy straight guy have the same problem than you.. trying not to watch that perfect round ass jiggling in puplic.:D
    I think every guy have that one trigger. Your trigger is yoga pants. You have to find your own way to not open Pornhub every time cause triggers. I believe you will find it someday. ;)

    And by the way what the fuck is wrong with these women who have to wear those fucking "trackpants" even in bars and nightclubs.
     
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  17. CORAZZON

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    Last time I checked people are free to wear whatever they want unless a dress code applies.

    I recently started wearing skinny jeans just so I could show girls my dang-a-lang hanging down a leg. & they're pretty comfortable, actually.
     
  18. Shy_1990

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    Yea women should be free to wear what they want. I mean as a guy im always going to admire a hot girl. But me jerking off in the gym toilet should not be her fault.
     
  19. CORAZZON

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    I read this earlier, and when I was at the DMV earlier today I saw a very attractive mexican girl, wearing yoga pants. I have a thing for Mexican girls, and I caught myself looking at her. I stopped and asked myself "what emotions am I feeling by looking at her?"

    Arroused and attraction is not an emotion right? So the more I thought about it, the more I felt like the emotions I was feeling was a mixture of things - excitement, embarrassment to some point for looking at her, all kinds of stuff. I was waiting in the chair and on her way out she looked and smiled at me, and I smiled back.

    So later today, I take my ID that I got to my new job, and you guys wont believe who was working at the front counter. The girl I was checking out at the DMV. I smiled and said "hey didnt I see you at the DMV earlier?!" We talked for a second, told her about my girlfriend and she said she had a boyfriend.

    Sorry for the long story, but I just wanted to say that your small piece of advice helped me a lot today, the past couple days I've been getting tempted quite a bit to PMO, and I might have had a reset today if I didn't stop and think about how looking at the girl really made me feel. Plus, I made a new friend in the long run. So thank you!
     
  20. CORAZZON

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    Yes they should. I dont think it's a bad thing to admire someone attractive, but I personally want to get to the point where I can walk down the beach or someplace with as many attractive girls as could be and not act like a drooling dog. Know what I mean? I want to admire myself, I want to have self control. That's just me, and that's why I joined this website.
     
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