GO WITH ESCORT?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by ALEX_88, Sep 17, 2018.

  1. I’ve just about given up on finding a woman, I’m a pretty big loser in that regard. But I still won’t go to an escort, street walker, or brothel. There’s more to life than sex.
     
  2. LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself

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    Sure they will. Ask her the price for just a make out, no sex. She can do that.
     
  3. LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself

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    You don't know much about women, do you?

    They don't love ANY man. How can they? They just say those things. They don't understand what he has to go through to win.

    Drop all the romantic business, go up to a chick and kiss her, take what she offers and move on. If she says no, go on to the next.

    It's not math surgery, my friend!
     
  4. LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself

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    Think about it like this: if it took me 10 years to get what I want, I have 2 choices;

    either stay with it until I get what I want, or accomplish my goal.

    or

    give up.

    Which one wins?

    If it takes a long time, then accept it, pay the toll! But is it possible to find a woman? Of course!

    Work towards a solution, research it, you tube it. Try anything, everything. Find a way!
     
  5. Ra's Al Ghul

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    What do you think is your most negative factor, is it your looks or personality, or other things?
     
  6. ClaritySeeker

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    Yeah, it's not math surgery!
     
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  7. j0rdi3

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    You're wrong about women, Losemyselftosavemyself. You think you're saying something smart and insightful about women but what you're really saying is just ignorant, untrue, and needlessly cynical. Worst of all you're dashing these poor kids' hopes and dreams which they should rightly have as they will find love eventually. Don't try to ruin everyone's outlook on women just because you're miserable and have had poor experiences with women.

     
  8. Ra's Al Ghul

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    I think I'm good now. When I was younger I needed escorts because I didnt know how to talk to women, but now I'd like to think I'm past that desperation.
     
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  9. LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself

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    Find for me a woman who can love a man, without a transfer of assets.

    See what I mean, my friend?

    The answer is nil.
     
  10. ClaritySeeker

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    People, please don't listen to this guy...Both men and women are capable of loving each other without preconditions. Just because he has not found it, does not mean you will not. Most of us are PAs on here and we will naturally have a negative view, but this is just another opportunity to open your mind and overcome this sickness.

    @LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself here is a single example: Prenuptial agreements...
    Another example: People who get married and the guy gives her a ring that's cheap because that's all he can afford
     
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  11. j0rdi3

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    What an argument.. "present me with anecdotes in order to disprove my obviosly axiomatically incorrect understanding or a group of people that make up over half the worlds population"

    Sorry, bro.. sure women can be materialistic as can some men but they're generally not greedy soul-less automatons as you would have everyone on this forum believe.
     
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  12. LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself

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    j0rdi3, my friend, you've fallen into a trap. Let me explain:

    A lot of quazi-intellectuals believe that 50 cent words move the football on an argument. They don't.

    The question posed was ignored, and I was accused. Also I didn't say women were more or less materialistic than men.

    The question is: show me where love exists without a transfer of assets.

    If someone can make the case that there is a separation between love and assets, I can re-think what I've said.

    The reason this is important is for men to understand that although there SHOULD be a ideal of "love" that stands apart, as it SHOULD, it actually doesn't.

    Reality and theory are two different things.

    I agree with you, Sir, there SHOULD be such a thing as love. It seems important. But is it extant?

    The separation between love and money are critical. A woman who receives assets from a man does NOT have to love him to do that. She can make him THINK she loves him. But just because she says it, she spends time with him or they get physical, does this prove LOVE? I think not.

    Love is based on a romantic feeling that is generated as a combination of lust and compatibility. Compatibility alone gets a man friend-zoned. A situation of lust ultimately separates two people when the passion fizzles without compatibility.

    If a woman accepts money from a man, at that point, she does not have to show any evidence of love as defined above.

    But what the problem is, is that the man IS SHOWING EVIDENCE of love. He has put his effort, time, and other skills to use in order to EARN that money. Could there be any greater sign of appreciation than that? What he wants in return is respect. He deserves it. When she withholds the respect, she treads on thin ice. Too much respect she gives him, he takes her for granted. Too little, and he gets resentful, and the money flows with a little less velocity.

    Enough about that for now. Class dismissed.
     
  13. j0rdi3

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    I really appreciate you being able to articulate what you mean rather than this whole disagreement degenerating into insults. Though it is interesting hearing your pov (and I'll continue to think about and consider what you've said), my stance is still more or less the same. Materials do factor in as part of the equation of love as traditionally man is supposed to provide (materially, monetarily) for woman and woman is supposed to help and support man and prodive him children etc... but I believe that you are perhaps overestimating the degree to which this material aspect of the love relationship factors into the total equation. I will say one thing in your favor: That in the modern age something has gone awry in the general ease of relationships between women and men. And I as much as I would like to blame politics and ideologically bound groups like feminists and the like, that might also be ideological of me to say. Still even though I may not agree with your conclusion I do agree with your general sentiment that a wrench has been thrown in the gears of the modern relationship. Somethings fishy in the state of Denmark
     
  14. ClaritySeeker

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    I answered your question: Prenuptial agreement
     
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  15. LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself

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    You think you can get a hot girl to sign one of those?

    The chances are about like trying to throw a stone and hit Saturn.
     
  16. Rockemsockemrobots

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    Theres always something bad. Because even when its the perfect everything you will be wanting her love as a romantic loyal partner without the pay.
     
  17. j0rdi3

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    1. Define hot
    2. You're assuming that any girl with any degree of physical attractiveness will feel a strong sense of entitlement because she's hot; That's an invalid point, argument and is simply not so.

    It's clear your experiences with women were crucial in making you the distrustful lover you are today xD
     
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  18. ClaritySeeker

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    You said to give you one example before, now you're just dancing around being wrong.
    So here are some concrete examples so you can learn how wrong you are:

    Here are 14 celebrity couples with prenuptial agreements!
    • 14 Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel. ...
    • 13 Keith Urban and Nicole Kidman. ...
    • 12 Kim Kardashian and Kanye West. ...
    • 11 Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie. ...
    • 10 Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta Jones. ...
    • 9 Mark Zuckerberg and Priscilla Chan. ...
    • 8 Tiger Woods and Elin Nordegren.
     
  19. Toomuchh

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    Your definition of love is pretty fucked up.
     
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  20. LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself

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    For me, it is the truth. Love is a combination of lust and compatibility.
     

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