Going further into sex

Few books:

- The multi orgasmic Woman / Man / Couple by Mantak Chia
- Urban Tantra by Barbara Carellas

Also a great online resource online: The New School of Erotic Touch (explicit content)
I have watched a lot of their courses and it is very insightful for who want to experience new things.

 

Forget everything you learned from Porn. Those women are actors, real women generally don't behave like that.

Communicate with your partner. Ask her how you can be a better lover.

She comes first. If you are done before she gets there, she won't be satisfied.

 

That is my problem, even before Porn addiction. I rarely managed to get her to orgasm first. How can I do that? It is too arousing and I cannot control the ejaculation. Some women think I was egoistic, but the opposite is true, I can't resist.

 

Focus on foreplays, relaxing her, and playing with her erogenous zones. If you share pleasure with her on her breast, clit, and G spot (with tongue and finger), you will most likely halve her have an orgasm. Especially if you let her guide you toward her pleasure.

Then, if you want penetration, the most important thing for you would be to breath slowly and deeply, and to PAUSE as soon as you penetrate her. That way you will get use to the feeling of being inside her.

There is no rush, and she can touch herself while you stay still. She can halve an orgasm just like that as well.

 

Exactly as Tibo says. Slow waaaayyy down. Way down. In most cases, if you are having intercourse 2 mins in you've already failed. lol (if your goal is to please her)

Foreplay can last all day. It can start with compliments and doing nice things, gentle touching, flirting etc. when it does get to the bedroom, slow it down. For women it's a slow build up. You can make a woman orgasm without penetration, learn to do that. When it get's to penetration, some positions are less intense for the man than others, so find out where you can sustain the longest. It's all in the mind anyway, take your mind elsewhere, breath, calm yourself, relax.

 

Do that and you will be on your way to Pleasure Land with your Woman!