Going to try this...

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Lone_Wolf, Aug 21, 2016.

  1. Lone_Wolf

    Lone_Wolf Fapstronaut

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    Hi. I'm a 45 year old male who has been masturbating excessively since I was a teenager. I am unmarried and have never had a real relationship with a woman in my life. I actually hate most people, to be honest, but that's another story.
    I'm going to try to stop masturbating and see where it leads. I deleted all my porn bookmarks a few minutes ago. The best I have ever done when it came to quitting masturbation was an eight month period when I was in my mid-20s where I stopped. I have no idea why I went back. Back then, the Internet wasn't as full of porn options as it is today, so I mostly had to rely on imagination. Today one doesn't have to, obviously, so it's probably more difficult to stop.
    I'll take any support I can get, although I have a feeling that, as in most things in my life, I'll have to do this alone. Prove me wrong.
     
  2. Chained1991

    Chained1991 Fapstronaut

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    Hello Lone Wolf and welcome,

    I would like to say that yes, you will have to do this on your own. However you don't have to make it alone through this as long as you let others get to you. Give yourself the chance. You've found and amazing community and there are people willing to help more than you would like to. You just have to let them, for your own sake.

    My suggestion would be to keep a journal and write down where you started. Make it clear and be honest. Keep a journal and track the things that bother you, day by day you work on them. As long as you work on these things it's the right path. Are you going for 5 PMO sessions a day? Good, get them down to 3. Do you want to lose weight and it feels hopeless? Stick to running 2 km a day and eating one more healthy meal a day, it can be an omelette. My suggestions probably aren't spot on but I hope you get my point.

    Prove yourself wrong and kick this addiction's balls man, poke it's eyes out. It's only fair.

    Would be happy to hear from you working on it
     
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  3. Lone_Wolf

    Lone_Wolf Fapstronaut

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    Thanks, Chained1991. I appreciate that. I fell off the wagon, so to speak, twice since my post. I figured no one cared, so I gave in. Reading your post gives me a bit of hope.
     
  4. Sojourner7777

    Sojourner7777 Fapstronaut

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    Hey Lone, welcome. Don't give up, even when you give in. Good advice from Chained.

    You can do this.
     
  5. iHappy

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    @Lone_Wolf Just because you hate most people it doesn't mean you can't profit from this community. Like @Chained1991 wrote, you will have to do this on your own, we all do. But I believe you can find a lot of useful tips and comments around here if you just give it a go.

    Good luck
     
  6. Lone_Wolf

    Lone_Wolf Fapstronaut

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    I wouldn't be here if I didn't think at least one person here could assist me. My statement that I hate most people was merely a statement of fact and a bit of a backgrounder on where I am at the moment.
    Thank you for your wishes of good luck.
     
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