Got a Girlfriend, I think I am rebooted

Okay so, I've been serious about "Pickup". I've been watching RSD and Matt Artisan videos on how to pickup women. I approach about 3-5 women a day....it's very hard trying to get over approach anxiety. I've been on nofap for about 60 days...I feel really goooood.

So now, I got a girlfriend. A readhead 6/10. I still approach women and I see my girlfriend as a social experiment to work on my seduction skills...

Anyway, whenever we kiss, I get an INSTANT boner without even thinking about sex. It's like it has it's own brain....
I am guessing that my reboot is over!
I'm proud.

 

I will keep it up! I will never return to PMO, I keep myself aware that I don't get seduced by PMO...the real thing is muchhhh better.

 

I'm addicted to chatting up with women. It's a Fearful experience but it's satisfying when I learn something new about them.

 

Oh, are you my psychologist now?

 

LOL objects? I don't use women for my sexual conquests. I grab this opportunity to learn while dating. I respect all women and love all women. I would never hurt her in any way, emotionally and physically. Maybe you misunderstood that and I mis-communicated. I have a girlfriend because I want to work on my dating skills and conversational skills. I already told her that, and she is okay with it....and she loves me for being honest. Sooooo.....

 

If you say so...suit yourself.
Like I said in my other comment:
"I don't use women for my sexual conquests. I grab this opportunity to learn while dating. I respect all women and love all women. I would never hurt her in any way, emotionally and physically. Maybe you misunderstood that and I mis-communicated. I have a girlfriend because I want to work on my dating skills and conversational skills. I already told her that, and she is okay with it....and she loves me for being honest. "

 

Don't go up into conclusions, it can be mis-communicated my friend. My girlfriend is open to dating other women like I have explained and convinced her and agrees with it. We support each other and we're open.

 

I like what your pointing out my friend. I do. I am considering my actions. Most women are monogamous. In fact, about 97% of women like commitment in a relationship. I like to know what they really want in a relationship before even getting in one. This one was direct, she knows what she wants and told me many times before. She recently broke up with an emotionally abusive guy, she doesn't want any "love" type of relationship. No deep commitments. No strings attached. She's young, (25) and is not looking for a serious relationship. She just wants to have fun as she says so. Now, what I mean by "I love all women", that doesn't mean I'm emotionally invested, it's physically". I never insult any woman according to their physical features or attitude. What I meant by "love all women", is that I respect them. Not the kind of love that "lovers" do...not the kind of love that couples are invested in. I had a girlfriend of 3 years, never cheated on her, never insulted her, never emotionally abused her...in fact, I loved her to the fact that I wanted to marry her and she wanted to marry me, we broke up simply because of financial problems....and simply because her dad didn't approve of the relationship because she was Jewish and had different values. It was unconditional love. I know the kind of love you're talking about. When I left the relationship, I got addicted to porn and became socially inept...and that's how I seeked self-improvement which lead me to the Pickup Community. I realized I had no skills in picking up women so I joined them. I don't think its right that the pickup community is based upon polygamous or a bunch of cheaters. The only thing I extracted upon the pickup community is the skill to approach women. But I don't have to put their values into my head. I am in the pickup community because I want to learn more about women...I don't like the fact that the pickup community is permits with "sleeping with a bunch of women" or cheating. But when a woman says "she likes to sleep around and is not looking for love but just to sleep around", I am young and why do I have to be so serious? I like to have fun.

Now, I think I am a responsible man. I have limits. Now, for me, I also just want to have fun. If the right woman comes along, I know I am responsible and I have standards of a monogamous relationship. If she wants a "serious relationship", then I turn back in to my values, Fall in love....Never cheat on women because that's irresponsible. I state what I want in the first place. If she wants a "serious relationship"....I set my boundaries to never date other women.