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got bad appraisal. feel miserable

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by recoome, Nov 11, 2022.

  1. Reborn16

    Reborn16 Fapstronaut

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    Yeah OP could portion some time each week to apply for one other job. Changing jobs each year or two is the norm now. And that's how most people get better pay. They don't move up internally, they just apply for a very similar job at a company that offers a bit more pay and/or better conditions. And because you've got this job to fall back on, you can be a bit cheeky and negotiate for the best deal on pay elsewhere!
     
  2. Rebooting is kind of like rehab. What they tell people to do in AA when newly sober is not to make any big life changes while they get adjusted. So you are giving it plenty of time, this is good.

    If I might suggest, where you need to lean into it a bit more is into a 90 day hard mode reboot. Don't go to bars after work or restaurants. Don't hang out.

    Instead, be on your own and learn about addiction, dopamine/opioids, rebooting, and NoFap. Keep a journal and connect with other people. Send me a message if you need support.

    Build this foundation out and it will do amazing things for you.

    It should: you paid for it with suffering.
     
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