Got dumped

Hi @Merlionno, hope you're doing well. I know it's painful but you'll wake up one day and realize it doesn't hurt anymore. You should be with someone who makes you feel great about yourself.

 

No problem man. Now if we can all just stop jerking off we'll all be in great shape

 

A breakup is a loss similar to death.

You cannot keep asking why a poor soul succumbed to a fatal disease.

Similar to a breakup. We always want to know why we were dumped. Who really cares?

Have a healthy cry and mourn your loss. It stings. I hope you feel better soon. There is nothing wrong or unmanly with being upset.

As time passes, you will move on to the next girlfriend. Maybe she will end up being the one.

Hang in there. Time heals all wounds.

 

Just cuss her out one day. Call her a bitch.
Then move on and get a new girl.
I see you relapsed because of this. Damn, so she really did defeat you. She ruined your reboot.

Girls are not always rational when it comes to relationships especially with this feminazi movement nowadays.
Idgaf if the mods disagree.

 

From what you've told me she dumped u for no reason. She obviously doesn't care about you at all. I think it's because you told her about your porn addiction. Don't do that, girls don't wanna here that stuff.

If you curse at her you'll feel better. It will snap you out of denial (I'll be candid you're in denial about potentially getting her back, you won't, it's over).
Cuss her out, move on, find another girl.
Or do you wanna sit around all day and pmo and feel sorry for yourself?

 

It's unfortunate, but many young girls do not fully understand and need to build compassion for young men with this problem. It may be a lack of patience or understanding, but do not despair. My girlfriend is significantly older than me, but she has a lot experience and foresight, which helps with dealing with a case of porn addiction. The only thing you have to do is focus on improving yourself and doing what you want and not resorting to prostitutes or shallow relationships. The right person will come to accept that you had a porn problem, so many people are going to be aware of it themselves.

 

No fun in life without a heartbreak... the pain and hurt is what makes us human.... It makes us grow.... Do not give in to the feelings of despair and hate... forgive her and forgive yourself...

 

okay so girl dumps you and it's very common to feel like shit. I'm sure you guys shared a lot of memories and experiences and now she's no longer there. So what you should do?

There are over 6 billion people on this planet and over half are women. If you live in the Western developed world women have freedom to choose men and thus he can go and get them. One thing that one of my friends said is that when a woman is done with you, your turn is over into somebody else's turn. Don't feel bad about this is just life. Both men and women will have multiple partners and lots of experiences before they finally find one down the line to settle down. Has to do with maturity also because if somebody's young they don't know what they want and you don't want that Person because down the line they can change and mess up your whole life.

Years ago I was engaged and it was in a happy relationship. We are fighting an arguing all the time. Finally I told her you don't want me you want somebody at my level seeking Mary. She said no I love you. Anyways I broke up with her and six months later she married a classmate of mine. I was fine with it because I knew her deep down inside that she wanted anyone because she did not want to be lonely. That I find out 10 years later that she divorced him, had one child, now is living in a different state and has a boyfriend.

The point I'm trying to make is shit happens and is nothing that you can do about it. He could be in love with a woman for years and years in something happens and she leaves you. The only person you have 100% control of is yourself. To take this opportunity to make yourself stronger both emotionally and physically. If you haven't been going to the gym or exercising start doing that. Because initial looks are important and if you look sexy to have more options with women. Not only you should work on your body you should also work on your mind because women love intelligent guys.

The good news is you free to go about and have a lot of fun. It may not seem like that at this time but there's over 3 billion women out there.

 

Turn your focus towards higher goals, go to the gym, read a book, pick up a new hobby, take walks outside when you feel an urge to masturbate, and eventually find a lady who is faithful, loving, and kind.

 

One great piece of advice an older man once gave me is that young men should focus on improving themselves and their pursuit of truth rather than getting to obsessed with finding a girl because it is a lot easier to find a girl that is going to fit with you after you have grown.