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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Guatemala, Mar 26, 2016.

  1. Guatemala

    Guatemala New Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys, i was surfing the net on how to abstain from porn use and masturbation after being with a girl whom i really cared about and ended up failing to even get hard. she tried so hard to get me hard ( no pun intended ) and i just couldn't do it. Knowing it was because of my history of frequent porn use and masturbation i vowed to myself to solve my problem, since then we seem to be drifting apart ( the girl and i ) and i cant help but blame myself, i think she is beautiful but after what happened its as though she thinks I'm not attracted to her, she barely looks me in the eyes any more and i cant stand it. When i found this community i thought this is an awesome opportunity to improve myself for her.
     
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  2. SeeDee

    SeeDee Fapstronaut

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    Welcome, Guatemala!
    I think it might be best for you to focus on building other types of intimacy with your girlfriend. It will be good for your relationship, and the better your relationship with your girlfriend, the better chance you have succeeding. Learn what her favorite song is. What are her goals and dreams in life?

    Learn what she is like when she's at her worst. Find out what her pet peeves are. What types of food does she hate? What kinds of smells gross her out?

    This will take the focus off of the negative and strengthen your relationship.
     
  3. Guatemala

    Guatemala New Fapstronaut

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    thanks bruh, but i don't think it'll work we're not even in a relationship, we were just friends at first, to this point its still kinda complicated cos with her, i feel as though it doesn't need to be sexual, i really enjoy just hanging out with her, but ill talk with her then tell you how it goes mahn
     
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