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Guys! It's getting harder! I don't want to lose again!!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Thetree22, Apr 17, 2020.

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Should I leave the girl or get the girl?

Poll closed May 17, 2020.

  1. Leave her!

    2 vote(s)
    16.7%

  2. Go for her!

    10 vote(s)
    83.3%
  1. Apr 17, 2020 #1
    Thetree22

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    It's just my 2nd day man!! And it feels like I haven't masturbated fir a month! What the hell is this?! I can't control myself and now I have to face a new culprit to my addiction ... I met a sweet and cute looking girl who is kinda interested in me and unfortunately I have started to like her. She is making me lose my control over me... Man! This is horrible, we met just a few days ago and now these thought... all because of those porn scenes I watched that I am getting these thoughts and about such a sweet girl... and worst thing is I feel like a criminal right now and that is making my urge get even stronger! But also I can't afford to lose her coz she is the best girl I have ever met and I can't lose a chance to get into a relationship with her but I am sure if I keep meeting her I will lose my battle with this masturbation monster... How do I deal with this situation? Please help me!!!
     
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  2. Apr 17, 2020 #2
    BigBadWolf_27

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    Hello man.
    I suggest you to keep contact with her, but avoid any sexual stimulation... Think for a minute, use your brain. How bad do you want to be free from that addction? It can be easy with proper mindset man. Think in advance, eliminate triggers. It's your life, it's your decision. Do what you think it's best for you, but don't give up upon urges, you're better than that man...
     
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  3. Apr 17, 2020 #3
    Thetree22

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    That helped... I think after a few days of no porn, I wont get such thoughts anymore when I do not want them. I just need to hold on for a few more days. I am mediating and training myself for greater will power... I think this should help. It's better for her too if we end up in a relationship... I don't want her to be with a guy who is such a monster like me. Porn fills up your brain with rough sex scenes and then you start expecting your real life partner to do the same but I won't let this happen to her so... I think this girl is amphoteric in nature she gives me urges but at the same time also gives me a reason not to do it.
     
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  4. Apr 17, 2020 #4
    BigBadWolf_27

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    Yeah man, fix yourself and hit to her after a reboot. Focus on yourself now. Meditate, study, excersise, take cold showers. Eliminate bad habit by trying new, healthy ones. You got this. Stay strong, you're not a monster, that's just PMO affecting you, destroy that filthy side of yourself and show her your real face!
     
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  5. Apr 22, 2020 #5
    Thetree22

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    I did masturbate on 20th but I've again started prohibiting all this 'cause now I will build my body to give my girl a boy she feels safe with with PMO you can never build your muscles and I think that's the reason why I am so skinny, I have no large chest, no biceps, absolutely nothing (but yeah.. I have an amazing brain, I am the topper of my class ), what if I could build better focus (which will eventually improve my brain even more) and some upper body muscles! She will be so proud to call me her boy friend! And this is now giving me more motivation to abstain from PMO. I hope this time my streak is gonna be larger... Somewhat around 10 days... (While my target has always been a lifetime streak)
     
    Thetree22, Apr 22, 2020
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